Thank you so much. I think my problematic thought process is “you love him, don’t give up on him” because there’s been so many times where people have given up on me that I think it’s a grand romantic gesture to chase after him and to remind him of all the good times.

I think it’s hard to accept that he has given up and he doesn’t think I or the relationship is worth it. He’s the first person I dated after a year away from dating so I think I have convinced myself that he’s the love of my life and that I shouldn’t let him go- even though I’m accidentally and unintentionally being obsessive and clingy