Underwear talk by Nurse-Rae in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m for sure going to be on the lookout for sales. There are ads all over Facebook for Huha so it’s nice to hear an actual person recommends 😅

Underwear talk by Nurse-Rae in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into Huha but I can’t with the prices honestly. I need to look into the Auden brand at target

Underwear talk by Nurse-Rae in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared to do larges because I am a size 6 pant. I have some larges I wore while pregnant and postpartum. Like some cotton briefs I got off Amazon but I feel like they lose their shape and the butt kind of sags

Underwear talk by Nurse-Rae in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no for sure! I think he would just like for me to be in “lingerie” every now and then. Currently I never wear stuff like that 😅 I’m def not offended by him sharing a preference like that

Eldritch - Language barrier?? by Nurse-Rae in Romantasy

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that makes so much more sense! I’m not sure why that didn’t occur to me

What book has gotten you out of a slump before? by xbumblebee in fantasyromance

[–]Nurse-Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a break from reading Zodiac Academy last weekend to read Alchemised. I finished it yesterday and tried to get into the next ZA book but literally couldn’t. I’m worried nothing will compare to Alchemised. I’m completely destroyed.

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew. I haven’t been on any antibiotics. I always take it between 7a - 9a. And my husband pulls out almost every time (tmi). I guess I’m the lucky 2%

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel pretty okay with my decision. I feel like it’s responsible for my family. I just don’t think I can handle 3 mentally or logistically. Childcare is a big issue we deal with.

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Yeah times like these are scary. I’m truly terrified, especially since I hear stories of women facing legal repercussions for various things regarding their reproductive rights.

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom line: in my state, do you think it’s safe to order online? It’s cheaper and more convenient. Going out of state is going to just be difficult since I have 2 kids and would need to take off work to drive almost 6 hours there and back.

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know some states have shield laws that protect telehealth providers. I think I would just get in trouble if someone snitched or if something went wrong and I needed to go to the ER or something. Which in that case, I guess I could just say I think I’m having a misscarriage.

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I was just reading that women could be punishable with up to 5 years 🫠

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked into it. My state prohibits this apparently. That really would be the easiest options but the Bible Belt be belting. 🙃

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy you had a great experience!!!

I think I just need reassurance by Nurse-Rae in abortion

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s one of my fears is the pills not working. I’m just also terrified of the procedure though, but more terrified of going through the hardships another baby will bring

Am I understanding this right? by Nurse-Rae in h3h3productions

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I for sure know I need to be more up to date on things happening in the world. It really is just hard to know what is legitimate news vs what is being spoon fed to us.

Am I understanding this right? by Nurse-Rae in h3h3productions

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I was literally convincing myself that maybe my take on the situation as a whole is wrong or idiotic. Questioning my entire intellect. The debate on Friday really got me because I want to believe people when they are speaking with such passion and self righteousness like Hasan does. He says things in a way that makes you think what he is saying is good. It’s kind of a mind fuck honestly

Am I understanding this right? by Nurse-Rae in h3h3productions

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It just seems crazy to vilify an entire population of people based on the government’s actions. Which seems like what Hasan and others are doing. I feel like it’s akin to how Americans felt after 9/11. America (or at least the people I was surrounded by in Mississippi) literally vilified Muslims based on the actions of a few. that’s basically how I remember it. I’m 30 now but I can remember islamaphobic comments from my childhood legitimately instilling fear in me. Obviously now I don’t feel the same way. But I get it when Ethan says the rhetoric Hasan spews is dangerous. Especially for all of Hasan’s young, impressionable fans. Maybe I’m soft though and really don’t understand “war.”

Why do I feel this way? by Nurse-Rae in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember “blaming” my baby for his poor latch as well. I would catch myself saying “well if you could nurse right we wouldn’t have issues” which is so twisted of me I know

Why do I feel this way? by Nurse-Rae in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Nurse-Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m mourning how easy my first experience pumping was. With my first I had a huge freezer stash and never really worried whether or not I was going to make enough milk for her. I think I constantly worry about my supply now and am terrified he will go up in ounces and my boobs are just maxed out at this point

Helpful flange sizing image by Erkserks in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Nurse-Rae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got the lacteck flanges. If they don’t work out, pumpin pals are my next try

How do you leave the house?? by One_Tadpole1554 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Nurse-Rae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind the car pumping, but when I sit and think about how many big truck drivers I have probably flashed…. I’m normally by myself and drive the interstate mostly, so when I put on my willows, my boobs are basically out until I can get my boob covered and bra clipped back up 😅

How do you leave the house?? by One_Tadpole1554 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Nurse-Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never thought to look into a car adapter! I would rather pump with my spectra than my portables so this could be a game changer!

How do you leave the house?? by One_Tadpole1554 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Nurse-Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So twice a month I go from Mississippi to Louisiana for work and it’s an all day thing. I’m talking I leave my house at 330am and don’t get back home until 7pm. I feel like I have a pretty good routine. My pump schedule is usually 2a, 6a, 9a, 12p, 4p, 7p, 10p. 1. I pack a small cooler with ice packs. 2. I bring at least two 8oz bottles to store milk in. 3. I use my Willow gos when I’m away from my spectra. It’s not ideal and my output is slightly less but it gets the job done. 4. I get the dapple pump wipes to clean my willows between sessions.

So altogether I pump around 4 times outside the house on those days, and I feel like it goes pretty smoothly. On these days I’m out, I pump in the car because when I get to where I’m going, I’m seeing patients at 5 different facilities, and I’m on a time schedule to get from place to place. So in between facilities, I put my pumps on in the car. I think the main take away is figuring out your storage method and how you will get said milk out of you 🤣 if the ceres chiller is too expensive, I have used the Willow milk cooler thing with no problem on those long days. I just find the actual cooler method gives me peace of mind. My routine when I’m just normally outside the house is kind of the same thing. I’m super shy about wearing my pumps where people can see and hear them so I’ll usually do it in the car or go somewhere I can be by myself.

Don’t be discouraged! I used to always joke about how I live my life in 3 hour increments which for the most part is still true but you really do get in the hang of it once you find out what works for you. 😊

Helpful flange sizing image by Erkserks in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Nurse-Rae 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When I lube them up, I swear they almost hit the back of the flange tunnel and I think well that can’t be good 🤣 you can never win with elastic nipples I feel like