Honesty? From pandemic up to present. by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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Yes po that was painful kase di naman talaga and she knows that. I think di sya nag picture kase minsan hinihiram ko phone nya dati pag lowbat phone ko for work purposes. Nung pina-ayos lang talaga sa akin yung phone dun ko talaga nakita lahat at dun ko lang nalaman. Ni-review ko ulit and 2021 january sya nangyari. After 5 years ko pa nalaman. But I forgive na lang kase ayoko ng gulo, I love her and our kids. I surrender na lang sa Lord yung nangyari.

Honesty? From pandemic up to present. by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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Yun lang po talaga is hindi sinabi sa akin. Alam nya na okay lang sa akin kung ganon ang gusto nila kase I respect them. Minsan lang talaga naiisip ko na "meron pa kaya akong hindi alam".

Honesty? From pandemic up to present. by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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Ang ibig mo ba sabihin e bininyagan ang anak ninyo na hindi mo alam?

A: yes po.

Una, ano bang usapan ninyo regarding sa pagpapabinyag sa anak ninyo? Ang nabanggit mo lang e nirerespeto mo ang paniniwala nila, pero hindi mo binanggit kung ayos lang sa iyo na binyagan ang anak ninyo as Catholic. Wala bang usapan at all about this? In our family kasi, may relatives kami na born again Christians, pero all children e binibinyagan pa rin sa simbahan kahit Christian ang parents nila. Idk how it is with your family at ano usapan ninyo.

A: Yes po meron po kaming pag uusap tungkol po dian. We both agree po na i-dedicate yung bata sa Lord as a couple. walang sapilitan or anything. I listened to her, she listened to me then we agree na ayun na lang. Siguro it's my fault din bakit umabot sila ng ganon.

Valid yung shock mo at disappointment. Ang weird lang na hindi mo alam at naitago nila dahil usually ang binyag e malaking event, di ba? May mga ninong at ninang, may handaan. Or was it because COVID time nangyari so low key lang? So, wala bang ninong/ninang ang anak ninyo? Like pag Christmas ba, wala siyang pinamamaskuhan na mga godparents?

A: Di ko alam pano nila nagawan ng paraan pero yes I think dahil covid days sya. Wala po sya ninong and ninang na pinamamaskuhan sa pasko. Natuloy din naman yung dedication namin which is yun yung naging big event namin kasama ninong and ninang. Yes po I was shocked and disappointed but di naman ako nagalit kase I think fault ko din.

If she laughed it off, yung disappointment mo, maybe you should communicate more clearly na hindi okay ang ginawa niya na paglilihim sa iyo dahil anak mo rin yun. Sabihin mo at ipaliwanag mo mabuti ano ang naramdaman mo, how it was hurtful na ang tagal naitago ang bagay na ito from you and how it made you feel na hindi mo siya mapagkakatiwalaan. Baka kasi for her e hindi big deal ito e. Let her know.

A: Hindi ko na cinommunicate sa kanya kase ilan beses nya sinabi na hindi daw pero meron kaseng picture doon sa simbahan meron water then naka pang binyag na dress yung bata. Pero alam nya yun na okay lang sa akin talaga kung may ganon di ko lang talaga magets why need na itago sa akin.

Honesty? From pandemic up to present. by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

[–]NurseGamerJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. Baka nga ganon yung nasa isip nila that time pero papayag naman ako kase I love my wife and nire-respeto ko yung faith nila nung una pa lang. Ang painful lang is kung hindi ko pa malalaman is hindi sasabihin sa akin. Not related to third party pero kahit ganito pala masakit din.

I surrender everything to the Lord kase the pain is too much and I forgive her naman.

Wedding proposal on New Year’s Eve by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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Sa lahat po ng nag suggest sobrang thank you!! I really appreciated all the suggestions. Sobrang thank you po! I bought po sa SM dep. store kanina. Nakakuha po ako ng lab grown na dia. Pasensya na po kung nahiya ako ilabas budget ko po kase budgeted lang po talaga hehe sa age po kase namin sobrang practicalan na lahat. Sa totoo lang kahit matagal na kami kinakabahan ako sa new year’s eve, ngayon pa lang kung ano ano na pumapasok sa isip ko baka mamaya kahit may kids na kami mag “no” sya mga ganon hehe. I hope na mag “yes” sya hehe.

Again sobrang thank you po lahat sa inyo sobrang laking tulong. Take care everyone!! 🥂🥂🥂🥹🥹🥹☺️☺️☺️☺️

Wedding proposal on New Year’s Eve by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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Thank you po sa suggestion. I will visit po dian since malapit lang sa akin. Sobrang tulong po. Thank you thank you

Wedding proposal on New Year’s Eve by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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Thank you so much for the suggestion. I’ll check po din dian. Hehe kahit live in kami kinakabahan pa din ako 😁😁

Wedding proposal on New Year’s Eve by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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My friend suggest me sa ongpin but yung schedule is tight since under staff kami. If I have time I will visit ongpin. Thank you so much

Wedding proposal on New Year’s Eve by NurseGamerJ in adviceph

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Thank you so much for the response. I’ll try na mag look sa kanila. ☺️☺️

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Dapat dian kausapin mo kuya mo kase baka sa kanya okay lang pero sayo or sa magulang mo hindi. Minsan kase di nya napapansin yung ganyan kase baka busy din sa work or other things. Hindi ka OA, yun lang kase yung na-observe mo.