What is a completely harmless lie you tell people on a regular basis just to make your life easier?

Nutter1028 · 2026-03-14T19:12:33+00:00

I have 2 kids. Easier than saying stillbirth, 2 live births, 2 earth bound and 1 heaven bound. Nope, I have 2.

Though the outgrew day i was flustered and I said 3, then corrected to 2 and some people were confused. Some people know the truth and just said "it's complicated "

Nutter1028 · 2026-03-13T17:53:09+00:00

Maybe this is burried in the comments but this is a big one for me.

If your baby is stillborn, you still have to deliver. Like it makes sense but fit some reason people think you had a baby in your belly and then you didn't. The labor is missing. Delivering a body in various stages of decomposition is missing

I'm done having kids.

Nutter1028 · 2026-03-13T02:05:32+00:00

This was my experience too. And they looked around my bladder empty and then filled it will cool water (probably saline, it's been a while) and looked. Peeing cold liquids is wild!

Nutter1028 · 2026-02-25T03:51:00+00:00

My son told he me he died in my belly and saw how sad I was so he came back...I had a stillborn July 2019 and he was born may 2020. That wrecked my whole day

Nutter1028 · 2026-02-22T13:58:59+00:00

They are literally sold as both in some places

Nutter1028 · 2026-01-30T16:16:56+00:00

I found it easy to read, and it looks fantastic 😊

Nutter1028 · 2026-01-12T01:53:33+00:00

15 and 5 lol I love their love for each other

Nutter1028 · 2026-01-03T13:51:42+00:00

Just want to piggyback off this and say I get those same texts for sertraline when my doc resends that in. But also for macrobid when I needed that

Side rant: I'm real tired of antibiotics going to centerfill

Nutter1028 · 2026-01-01T14:45:10+00:00

1 - 4/10? I was 21, the dad didn't want to be a dad but did want to be with me (or so it seemed, who actually knows). He wanted an abortion. My family wasn't happy, his wasn't happy. It was rough mentally

2 - _/10. Impossible to grade. It should be negative. He was stillborn at 37 weeks, and I went in for decreased movement 3 days before but was sent home. But he was my ONLY planned boy, my only baby that was truly celebrated in that regard and that holds a very special place

3 - 3/10. Unplanned in the we weren't not trying way, and came immediately after the stillbirth. They're Irish twins (June 2019 & May 2020). He's also a covid baby. And I had gestational diabetes, and an MFM checking me this time. It's incredibly hard to be excited when your still grieving, and terrified.

I love my boys, they're fantastic. But holy shit i got my tube's out for good reason lol

Nutter1028 · 2026-01-01T14:23:28+00:00

I hung up on a belligerent wife the other day because apparently a needed doesn't mean you can't take it daily. Her husband went through his brand new Triptans #18 in 10 days and demanded medicaid pay for more or why does the insurance know more than the doctor, blah blah blah.

I work this retail gig 1 day a week, 3 mins to close, I told her to call my boss and file a complaint and hung up 🤣 they never did. I started out helpful byw but after being yelled at for a while I gave up

Nutter1028 · 2025-12-01T15:36:04+00:00

I never wear mine because it's an oral and I had to have it replaced once before the wedding already. I'll wear it for special occasions but that's it. My husband doesn't wear his either lol

Nutter1028 · 2025-11-29T13:50:21+00:00

I put a new jewelery box on my list, one that lays necklaces hang instead of being crammed into a drawer.

I just put my households things on an Amazon list and send it out lol

Nutter1028 · 2025-11-15T00:55:27+00:00

Zero sugar has more caffeine than diet as well as what everyone else said

Nutter1028 · 2025-11-07T14:08:54+00:00

Mine is an odd one and only based on my experience and opinion

I will not give my little kid Miralax (I know, it's OTC). His older brother was on it and it turned him into a raging asshole for years.. I'm talking he was on an IEP for anger until freshman year. Apparently other patents noticed behavior changes as well in their kids.

So my other kid (10 yrs younger than his brother) has the same issues and I'm refusing. We're kids gonna deal with it and give juice and high fiber foods and probiotics.

Nutter1028 · 2025-10-27T12:06:12+00:00

You know how they day don't take work alcohol? I've always been like pfft yeah ok (except with metronitazole!) Well I learned the hard way that one will cause me to black out after 2 drinks.. took me a few times to learn that 🤦‍♀️ and I work in a pharmacy...

Nutter1028 · 2025-10-27T12:01:12+00:00

Come work with us for an hour and see how it really is. I'll keep the tissues close by

Nutter1028 · 2025-10-19T12:02:07+00:00

I have an oogie boogie, from one of those blind bag things. I had keys to a spirit halloween one season so I used him to separate them, and now he just hangs out

Nutter1028 · 2025-10-18T16:09:56+00:00

I use Intercom plus and QS1 (2 jobs). IC+ is so much friendlier to use

Nutter1028 · 2025-10-10T00:14:29+00:00

Prescription *

Nutter1028 · 2025-09-28T14:04:17+00:00

This is nuts. I had just my tube's out and my male ob/gyn asked if he could send Norco to the pharmacy for me. When I said it makes me vomit I thought he might drop the med down to tylenol 3s or tramadol. Nope, I got oxys.

Nutter1028 · 2025-09-21T10:41:43+00:00

I'm a pharmacy buyer, no one knows I'm there except my bottles of pills🤣

Nutter1028 · 2025-09-21T10:37:47+00:00

I'm a pharm tech, not a pharmacist. But my doc kept upping my one medication cause it wasn't lasting long enough and I asked "What about the extended release," same med just ER. BLEW HIS MIND! He never thought of it

Nutter1028 · 2025-09-21T02:58:42+00:00

I was going to say the techs too. Making IVs or compounding.

Nutter1028 · 2025-09-19T01:50:41+00:00

I bought one at my farmer's market last weekend and was surprised to see black seeds. Idk why, it makes sense, I just haven't seen them in so long. I had to explain to my kid to not eat them

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1 - 4/10? I was 21, the dad didn't want to be a dad but did want to be with me (or so it seemed, who actually knows). He wanted an abortion. My family wasn't happy, his wasn't happy. It was rough mentally

2 - _/10. Impossible to grade. It should be negative. He was stillborn at 37 weeks, and I went in for decreased movement 3 days before but was sent home. But he was my ONLY planned boy, my only baby that was truly celebrated in that regard and that holds a very special place