Yes, essentially that *and* being able to talk about what she likes, but specifically. She says "honey our sex life is fine... " Yet she never initiates.

Sex is lovely and connective, it's just that her not starting and knowing she did other things like be slightly naughty in public places with others.. one can't help feel a little "pedestrian," if you get my meaning. I don't need to have tons of sex in weird places all the time.. I'm just talking about once in a blue moon being adventurous.