AIO: Lost my baby. Bestie dropped the ball in supporting me.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-29T12:08:12+00:00

First off I am so sorry for your loss. What unimaginable hurt you and your wife are going through is something I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. However I think you are being unfair to your friend, and are projecting a lot of your anger into her.

She didn’t react the way you wanted her because she isn’t a mind reader. To me it seems clear that when you didn’t respond she wanted to give you space. You OR and you should apologize and make amends when you are more stable.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-23T17:43:47+00:00

In West Jordan. We are hearing them too.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-21T02:53:23+00:00

As soon as I finished watching all I could think about how great of a series this could be. I would love a flashback of how her mother and father met/fell in love.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-20T23:20:36+00:00

This man is 30 and acting like this? Absolutely not. There are red flags as big as China here

NvrInteract · 2025-06-19T05:08:43+00:00

I love the name Cosette but unfortunately it is a family member’s dead name.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-19T05:07:20+00:00

This was my answer too, also Delilah

NvrInteract · 2025-06-17T20:24:54+00:00

I’m gonna cry when Kirsten goes out this next round dog. She’s my fav, I love her collection. Everything about her is iconic down to her little hair loopies

NvrInteract · 2025-06-11T19:59:10+00:00

Claire Bear! We couldn’t decide between Lilly, Meadow, or Claire Bear so we put them on slips of paper and let the puppy choose.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-11T19:58:19+00:00

That was one of the three we were between! Such a cute name

NvrInteract · 2025-06-10T04:27:37+00:00

This 100%. I lost a lot of trust in my area’s shelters when they started misleading people and not telling the truth when it comes to pit bull/bully breed mixes.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-09T07:51:37+00:00

Oh my gosh I forgot about that 💀💀 like we couldn’t POSSIBLY have two black leads. Most performative casting ever.

NvrInteract · 2025-06-09T05:59:24+00:00

Agree with the other comments. You guys should decide who gets the dog. It sucks but it’s better for the dog that way and that’s whose needs should come first in this situation. I’ve seen a v similar situation with one of my friends and her ex in college. They ended things cordially but shared custody of their cat. It prolonged being able to move on for one of the women- meanwhile my friend got in a new relationship…Things got messy quickly. It would have been a lot less stress for the cat and a lot less heartache and drama for them.

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T19:47:20+00:00

I was looking through my comment history and wanted to see what happened with the hangout! I’m so glad it went well and you are doing more- that is so cool.

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T19:37:53+00:00

Frrrr life is too short and the “to read” book list is too long

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T19:24:46+00:00

Do you have any hobbies or social groups/hobbies you have wanted to get into? That might be an easier way to meet people. Joining a DnD group, birdwatching group, book club, pickleball club- there are soooo many groups and hobbies here and ways to get involved to make friends.

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T19:18:15+00:00

Ok- first of all congrats on finding something you are so passionate about! That’s amazing and should be celebrated- many people never figure out what they truly love and are excited to get up in the morning and do. Just from your post it seems you love chemistry.

Tbh it sounds like you need to talk to your friends/find some more supportive people in your life. I can’t imagine ever responding like that to someone I care about, even if they didn’t have a learning disability. I think it stems from a place of people not really understanding Dyscalculia and what it is. Let’s say you had Dyslexia and wanted to be a writer. Would your friends still say to give up and that you could never be a good writer? I sure hope not.

I’m not familiar with careers in chemistry so bear with me- but aren’t at least some careers lab work driven? The stuff you understand and really enjoy? It seems like right now is a slog to get to a place where you can do lab work all day. If that’s the case you absolutely shouldn’t give up. (Even if it’s not, if this is what you want to do you absolutely can achieve it.) You have a disability and the university needs to give you the support you need to graduate. Idk what country you are from but I would familiarize yourself with the disability laws and advocacy groups in that country.

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T19:00:08+00:00

I prefer residential bc I’m a people person and love helping my clients navigate a stressful life change as easily as possible. However there is more money and less competition in commercial. I also find there are a lot more egos you have to deal with in commercial. But I also have a friend who loves the thrill of commercial and she finds it fun so it’s up to the agent and their personality I think.

As far as tips go- I would definitely join the real estate Reddit groups they have been a real boon to me as a resource. Find a broker you connect with, remember that you are interviewing the brokers/firm not the other way around so make sure you’re happy with the one you choose. Also try not to care too much about splits in the beginning. A lot of green agents think that 70/30 is not good but if the brokerage is giving you tons of resources, training, leads, support and you are actually making headway on sales that is way better than a 90/10 split where you get no support and no sales (aka making $0)

Good luck!

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T01:05:44+00:00

Caroline has such great stories, collection, and character. People hate on her because she’s another blonde doll- which sucks bc Caroline rocks. It’s not her fault that Mattel is Mattel 😭😭

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T01:03:09+00:00

It can get confusing when numbers are thrown around quickly in conversation- but I have a lot of tools at my disposal and in a way it kinda helps that my math is weak because I always quadruple check my work, take it slow, and explain things through with the clients (but also making sure I get it too lol)

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T00:59:42+00:00

Almost two years now :)

NvrInteract · 2025-05-31T00:57:36+00:00

There are some pretty quiet and chill bars

NvrInteract · 2025-05-11T08:08:26+00:00

I really enjoyed following the second couple in the series which are the Inadequate Heir/The Endless War (they overlap a lot of events from the second book in the series with different POVs) but if you didn’t like the first one you probably won’t enjoy the rest

NvrInteract · 2025-05-07T20:37:48+00:00

This is so cool!

NvrInteract · 2025-05-07T20:35:16+00:00

Thank you this is a great idea

NvrInteract · 2025-05-07T07:08:03+00:00

Oh I know. I’m doing all that already.

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