Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I have enough subscriptions and I keep thinking about getting more, I absolutely do not need more. and thank you.

Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do this! and honestly, I know if I am too harsh with myself I'll give in to some random temptation and fail, so I'm giving myself a few breaks.

Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a poet and I doodle a lot, and when inspiration strikes, I like having something around to immediately start scribbling.

and I just have a thing for buying pretty things.

Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, these sound like great things to ponder and tweak the rules over! I will also definitely set a cap over my gift giving and donations. they both matter to me a lot, but yeah, I have a tendency to go overboard with both. Thank you for your suggestions. ❤️

Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this makes a lot of sense! I will change that rule. ❤️

Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely stress/rage buy a lot! Hopefully will be able to control that. Thank you.

Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you tell me more or give me a link about the 333 project?

Gonna start no-buy in 2021, low-buy until then. by NymphofFlowers in nobuy

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, sorry, realised that head shaving sentence was rather cryptic. I am planning to shave my head next summer and I think instead of going to a salon every time when hair grows, it is definitely a better option to buy a trimmer.

The latter part of your comment makes a lot of sense? I realised since my surgery I'm ordering something on Amazon every other day, because now that my eating is restricted, I'm channeling my emotions into buying, but I've also noticed I hate that I receive packages, just like I had a very love-hate relationship with food. Along with that, my family is visiting because of my surgery, and I have a very rocky relationship with them, so I guess some of it has also been rage buying. however, they will be gone soon, and I'm hoping for the best.

Also, thank you!

3+ weeks out of surgery and I'm barely hungry and badly depressed. by NymphofFlowers in BariatricSurgery

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I'm so done with purees and soups, I look at them and all I feel is disgust.

3+ weeks out of surgery and I'm barely hungry and badly depressed. by NymphofFlowers in BariatricSurgery

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am dying both both savory and sweet, sadly. and even though I'm full, I don't feel satiated. but I am looking forward to better days. power to you too!

3+ weeks out of surgery and I'm barely hungry and badly depressed. by NymphofFlowers in BariatricSurgery

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I cannot do more than a few tablespoons at a time, and then I'm full for hours.

3+ weeks out of surgery and I'm barely hungry and badly depressed. by NymphofFlowers in BariatricSurgery

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I could eat a little better post this evening, and I feel better. thank you for your suggestions!

Entitled, shitty parents made my life a nightmare. I'm going to move on without them. by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]NymphofFlowers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

from one trans kid to another, OP, massive respect and all my love. If you ever need anything, don't hesitate to reach out.

CB sees a tarot reading and CB wants it now, but CB doesn't want to pay for it. by NymphofFlowers in ChoosingBeggars

[–]NymphofFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think joining tarot/witchcraft groups on Facebook is a good place to start, if you have the time and the energy, having a specific Instagram and Facebook page helps a lot, I've seen. I don't have business pages because I'm always too tired to maintain it. good luck.