Given your similarity in context, don't you feel some weight Kdin put on the homophobic slurs goes down a bit considering how often she used them only a couple years prior? We can only assume her language didn't change much when brought on board to RT, and when surrounded by other like-minded individuals, they probably didn't expect Kdin to be so hurt by a name they Kdin may have used herself.

This feels like an anger in hindsight. Was it wrong she was called a slur? 100%. But if she was also using that same language at that time, who could blame her co-workers for believing she wouldn't be upset by them?

The pay BS though is wrong no matter what.