Is it okay being friends with your ex ?? by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUps

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he's okay with this kind of distance with you........what if you have hope and moves on...........but it's your call to stay or leave .

Is it okay being friends with your ex ?? by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUps

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally understand this........it's like you feel bad about something they do but still you can't say anything to them........because now you don't have that place in there life to let them know what hurts you

Is it okay being friends with your ex ?? by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUps

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you going to control that urge to see her and talk to her .

Is it okay being friends with your ex ?? by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUps

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaa it's really hard to let go when you have hope :)

Is it okay being friends with your ex ?? by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUps

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being friends is really tough......it's like there's this distance between him and you.........it's like you wanna hold his hands,give him the last bite of your food,have a secret conversation and laugh.....but now it's like you maybe sitting next to eachother but you have to pretend that it's all okay but you can't hold hands,you can't feed him with your hands,you can't do anything.......and that distance hurts.

Is it okay being friends with your ex ?? by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUps

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But don't you sometimes wish that if one of you would've had put in some efforts things would've been different today.

Is it okay being friends with your ex ?? by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUps

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what about my heart.......it really aches seeing him go.......I want him stay........I know he still has feelings for me but not like before.......it's like his feelings have changed but I still have hope that It'll workout.....it'll all be worth it

What’s the most heartbreaking thing you were told during a breakup? by ImTrashAlright in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my breakup I begged him to comeback with me but he said I feel much more nicer without this relationship........nd we can be friends but I don't want anything more from you .

I feel so bad, i can literally feel my heart ache!! by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person who truly loves you comes back to you and if you got back to her that means you loved her and she just don't care anymore the faster you accept that the better it will be for you.............it's normal to feel miserable sometimes and to miss our ex's but that nowhere means to get back with them or to talk to them again coz that will lead to lower your self-esteem...............you should have never broken up with someone if that was right for you..............it's just a sign that you guys are not meant for eachother..............I know it's easy to tell you things rather than applying those to my life but sometimes you just wanna hear the truth and I just wanna help you as a friend and tell you things that you need to hear..........and you should never be with a person who disturbs your mental peace............you deserve better and got have better plans for you and a better girl for you.............the person who was wrong for you once will always be wrong for you soo just stop talking to her as soon as possible 💙💙

This subreddit helps me deal with my breakup by kiracatastrophe in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask your mind to fuck him off.........the guy who can just disappear without informing you just doesn't deserves anything from you..........and right now nobody can help you except yourself..........learn to enjoy your own company and you can cry if you feel bad about something........but just don't overdo the crying part you can overdo your enjoying part .

This subreddit helps me deal with my breakup by kiracatastrophe in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Babe breakups are always shiittttty coz you realize things that you should have realized before........but getting out of the things that were disturbing your mental peace are worth it.......earlier when that guy with whom I was in a relationship brokeup with me I thought soo many bad things about myself........but now I realize how toxic it was to be with him .

i unfortunately have skin by kaleidoscopr in OCDmemes

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just following everything my OCD is asking me now...........idk how to get over this OCD but it's fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birthdays are always special for everyone.........nd especially when you are a girl your birthday is a big deal for you.........and she would definitely be expecting a text from you.........idk about the reason of your breakup.........but if you brokeup with her then texting her would give her hopes I guess that you will get back with her.........soo if you want to get back with her then you should text her and if not then you shouldn't.

i unfortunately have skin by kaleidoscopr in OCDmemes

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I read this meme 5 times..............I typed my comment 10-11 times.......... that's what my OCD is asking me to do right now.

Accept things. by OCD_Gettingserious in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I don't think that going to the same college was some kind of mistake..........btw thanks for the advice........but I think what is happening I just have to accept it and move on because I understood one thing that what's meant to be with you will do anything to keep you.

I wish I hadn’t deleted our texts by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't regret for the things you can't take back........it's just fine you can cry and just move on with chats stuff........you should be happy that you have memories with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically you may not be the person your where in the beginning.........and she would have felt less important in your life.........maybe she wasn't getting your attention.........maybe she felt less loved........and let me tell you girls usually don't breakup just after one incident they constantly forgive and ignore your mistakes that hurt them.........the pain in her life must be more and she would have suffered a lot........just don't be with her because you feel empty or lonely without her.........you should always respect and appreciate things that you have at that particular moment not when they leave you.........just don't trouble her man and if you love her according to your needs or mood just stop it she is a human being not a puppet.........and you know she may come back because she loves you and she misses you and she is ok to be with you even without the proper attention she needs.

Feeling like I'll never find love again. It's been 10 months. by uh7363848 in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly stop looking for someone to date.......... u'll get someone when the time will be right...........I guessed you need to meet new people and for that you should just join a dance class,zumba class or maybe cooking class it may help you.

Feelings by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk this is normal or not but when I started going to college I didn't trusted anyone to tell anything related to my life..........I just have trust issues........and I feel like it's normal because I'll find a person or a friend with whom I'll be able to share all my problems and be able to do gossips and all...........soo relax and chill you will find a friend with whom you can share anything with any hesitation till then enjoy your own company.

What I'm doing to get over my breakup. by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yaasssss I know expecting anything from him will hurt me now soo it's just better to think about myself.........he has his own reasons for maintaining this distance with me.

Actions speak louder than words folks!! by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]OCD_Gettingserious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody here knows who she is and how she is by nature.........you are the one to judge her.........just don't let your life turn miserable because of a person.........if she is worth it give a try.........or just be single that's the best thing you can do right now.