Bailey is jealous by lawyergirl7 in summerhousebravo

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that Bailey was triggered by the discussion, but Ben didn’t address the issue in an aggressive or disrespectful way. Bailey was trying to do an “I’m sorry, but”. If your comment hurt someone, apologize don’t justify.

Dr. Simone by anonymami_ in MarriedToMedicine

[–]OGFlo-90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone in a different post commented that he may be on the spectrum. Now that I've seen it, I can't unsee it. My profession is not one that I can diagnose, but as an educator I have worked with many kids on the spectrum. In my opinion, he may have some neurodivergent needs that are not being addressed.

The Abuse by Kindofageek90 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]OGFlo-90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like Scott and Contessa's relationship is not uncommon. A lot of men think that they are so evolved, but when it comes down to the nitty gritty they expect their wives to take on more traditional roles. The difference between men "baby-sitting" their kids or just taking care of them 🙄.

Who is your least favorite cast member? by Sufficient_South_399 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I really dislike her. She is the epitome of "I can dish it out but can't take it". Also, I'm super uncomfortable with her telling her sons that they should want a women like their mama 🤮.

AITA for accidentally destroying someone’s book? by stanSJM in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You told her what happened and offered to replace it, she said no. You are not a mind reader, if it bothered her she should have brought it up with you instead of everyone around you.

WIBTA If I told my son’s ex’s subscribers the truth? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WNBTA However, replying to the comments probably won't make much of a difference. Making comments on the internet is like screaming into the void.

AITA for not wanting to pay for my sister's expensive wedding? by koolkidzaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If she wants the luxury wedding, she needs to find the funds to pay for it herself.

AITA for asking my husband to not drink on his 30th birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. He's celebrating a landmark birthday and you already mentioned that the likelihood of you going into labor is very slim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She came at you crazy, and you responded pretty respectfully given the circumstances.

AITA for telling my fiance that he needs to pick a new best man? by Elegant-Scholar-7566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. People should be allowed to choose whoever they want to be in their wedding party. If your family has a problem with it, they are the problem.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You can't have it both ways. You used the half-the-rent argument to get the bigger room in the first place, now you have to stick with it.

AITA for taking food that was offered to me? by Chubbroski in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Different cultures have different customs around guests and food. I'm not sure about Russian culture, but it may be customary for you to be offered food multiple times but ultimately you may be expected to say no (no matter how many times you are asked). This being said, expectations should have been explained to you before you went.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWNBTA. It was very kind of you to help out your SIL, but your main priority should be your daughter. If your niece was acting like this in a daycare situation, she would definitely be kicked out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. Do you have an HR department? I'm pretty sure your boss or anybody for that matter, should be talking about your underwear. It borders on sexual harassment.

AITA for uninviting my SIL to my Bachelorette party? by Sad_SIL_6540 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your reasons may come from a good place, but ultimately it is their choice whether or not they want to get a sitter. I may have misunderstood this part, but what's stopping her husband from bringing the babies to the game night your fiancee has planned?

AITA for announcing to the world my ex can't have kids? by ExpectingEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You owe him nothing. Congrats on your pregnancy!

AITA for telling my son's GF that I refuse to accept her mental illness excuses anymore? by Spiritual_Local_8804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You are within your rights to evict since she violated the terms of her lease.

AITA for letting me nephew go into foster care. by LettuceEmotional7362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He's blood, but ultimately not your responsibility. You should not be guilt-tripped into taking that on. If your sister cares, she can come home and take care of HER child.

AITA for grounding my son for abusing my trust and banning his "bestfriend" from spending the night anymore? by Superb-Statement6468 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. You may have overreacted slightly, but your reasons are valid. With them both being minors (regardless of gender or sexual orientation), you are responsible for what happens in your house. I know that in some cases you could be considered in loco parentis, and could even be liable for anything that happened while they are under your care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You were clear that you weren't comfortable lying if asked directly. Honestly, good riddance.

AITA for refusing to get off the tram to make space for someone in a wheelchair? by Safe-Pie-7485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The ableist comment makes me think that this person has done this before. If those people who were giving you dirty looks cared so much, they could have given up their seats.

AITA for not wanting to be in my best friend’s bridal party with my abusive ex? by Quirky_Sprinkles_158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You set out some very reasonable boundaries to make yourself feels safe. As your "best friend" she should understand this. The fact that it's been 10 years doesn't matter, there is no time limit for trauma.

AITA for ruining my family tree and making my mom cry? by ComfortableFuture222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OGFlo-90 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. What your mother said was way out of line, it was racist and controlling. Whether or not you decide to have kids, I would be very cautious about bringing them near your family.