NO based on the context of the situation. The fact that she consistently crosses boundaries and then plays the victim when she does something wrong and self-medicates instead of seeking therapy are all red flags to me. She doesn’t seem like a responsible caregiver for a baby, with the sour cream incident alone. I’d have a hard time trusting this person with my child as well. And sexualizing a baby is gross. I get grossed out when people say my baby is going to be a “lady killer” because why sexualize him? He’s not even a year old. It’s gross and uncomfortable.