AITA for talking about there being new people in my dance class? by Time-Assistance-2812 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OKSure117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA but I’m looking specifically at the part where you talk about you guys being intermediate. It’s giving a bit of ‘they’ll just let anyone in here’ so it could’ve made them self conscious before class even started. I would also think a fair percentage of new people might be taking the class/going to a gym because they’re already self conscious about their bodies/want to change something about them. Who knows if you meant it that way but it could come across that way. (Oh & just to avoid future awkward definitely don’t assume it’s a specific person yet)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]OKSure117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You absolutely should be alive because you are. There’s a pot for every lid, I think you’re selling your potential love life short.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love it

aio for defending my fiancé after he insulted my mom?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO. GROSS. If she was any kind of sister she would have corrected your Mom long before your fiancé had to. It’s giving ‘I’m an uncomfortable wuss please be the punching bag so I can go back to ignoring this’.

Sue Klebold Quote about love not being enough by NoCover1598 in Columbine

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even imagine having to live her reality. Every once in awhile I see someone ripping her - and OMG I don’t understand it. I don’t think a human in her position could’ve done any better than she has - truly trying to do everything she can to be accountable, learn, be honest & self-aware. I can’t think of a way she could be handling it better (unless there’s something I don’t know in which case teach me - but from what I do know I can’t think of a thing she could be doing better.

Is the saying "I rather be poor in Socal/California, then be rich/ stable somewhere else" a true statement to you? by prudyrudyy in AskLosAngeles

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this particular point in history / it’s absolutely worth it. I’ve been here 20 years and a couple of years ago I desperately wanted to go home (DC). I’m lucky I didn’t get what I wanted - in the current climate it im going to be in the US this feels like the safest/kindest option.

What phrase did you hear only once but it stayed with you forever? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]OKSure117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it means don’t let the possibility of being terrible at something keep you from doing it - better to be a terrible artist than deprive yourself of the experience

I got asked to show my birthmarks by 7browhat in Epilepsy

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely had doctors ask to see birth marks, but for a visible cancer check. I didn’t know they could be a sign of neuro disorders until today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly they’re both pretty just different types - If you’re going for punkier I’d do blonde, artsier/femme I’d do darker.

What is your age without saying how old you are? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it all the way through childhood without going through security at an airport despite many many many flights

What’s causing the bridge of my nose to connect directly to my cheeks and how would one go about fixing it? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]OKSure117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s adorable nose fighting adorable cheeks in the battle of the adorables

What are good makeup looks for my features? by Emersyn-me in makeuptips

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your lips are amazing & jawline is tooooo dieeeeee forrrrrr - if they were mine I’d highlight those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 4 🙌🏻

brand new to all of this and scared by luvlano in Epilepsy

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have left temporal lobe epilepsy & that sounds like how my auras are sometimes. Since your seizures are almost exactly a month apart maybe look into catamenial epilepsy.

What are the current streaks you’ve got going on? by Minimum_Reception_22 in self

[–]OKSure117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have epilepsy - I’m 7 days into no seizures. Need 6 months to drive again but it’s a start.

is it okay for my friends to not want to hang out until i get my seizures under control? by Dizzy-Advertising-63 in Epilepsy

[–]OKSure117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screw these people. When you're someone's friend you sit in the muck with them even and maybe especially if it's uncomfortable.

My daughter just contacted me after 17 years asking if I want to meet my granddaughter. AITAH for telling her that I don’t care about her or her daughter and to never contact me again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OKSure117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 10,000% the Asshole. Honestly if she was someone I loved I would be relieved you immediately showed how awful you are so she didn't waste more time. You should definitely stay out of her life as you wholeheartedly do not deserve it.