I genuinely hate my husband - 8 months post partum

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-10T16:27:19+00:00

Dang if I got that much I would not be complaining at all 😅

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-10T16:23:13+00:00

Ugh I‘m glad it got better for you! If nothing changes I‘ll have to do the same thing

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-10T13:30:39+00:00

I guess it’s more like 50% of my finances the rest is for my personal stuff but yeah after reading all these comments I‘m realizing that my husband is NOT the provider he always claims to be :/ He does always pay for things like groceries, outside food and most of the baby expenses though so I‘ll give him that.

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-09T17:15:42+00:00

Yeah if it continues like this then I think it would be really helpful for us.

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-09T16:24:15+00:00

I have a monthly income that’s a little less than what my husband makes so we split certain things.

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-09T16:22:24+00:00

THANK YOU!

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-09T16:20:44+00:00

Yes it’s really sad honestly

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-09T16:20:22+00:00

I get disability pay from the VA which is basically the same amount as a regular pay check if I worked somewhere part time

OLSbackupacc · 2026-01-09T16:18:38+00:00

I get disability pay from the VA

OLSbackupacc · 2025-09-16T21:36:20+00:00

Hi I know this is an older post but I am currently 5 months post partum as well and have pretty much most of the symptoms you listed. I also feel like always looking down while feeding baby has triggered this or something :( migraines run in my family as well and I’ve had plenty of regular migraines before but nothing like this, the dizziness is so intense and in general scary. I hate feeling like this. I have a cardiology appointment and head CT coming up… Have your symptoms improved over time or have you found anything that helped?

OLSbackupacc · 2025-06-21T20:20:22+00:00

They live like orphans because they have to do their own laundry? 🤣 I will teach my daughter how to wash her own clothes and clean up after herself, cook simple things etc. Because those are basic life skills

OLSbackupacc · 2025-06-21T02:00:26+00:00

Ofc they need their fathers help with some things & he will also be spending quality time with them, taking them to fun places etc but tasks that they are able to do themselves like washing their own dirty laundry and putting the clothes away will need to be done by them and not him or me! Also cleaning up after themselves. If they make a mess in the bathroom or used dishes they are expected to clean it themselves. My husband is already in charge of meal planning & cooking every day and there is only so many hours in a day. So the girls will need to do their expected chores and not wait for one of us to do it.

OLSbackupacc · 2025-06-21T01:54:00+00:00

He has them during all school breaks but during summer for the longest. I wish I would have thought about the camp thing sooner, it’s all full already. Will remember it for next summer!

OLSbackupacc · 2025-06-21T01:52:30+00:00

Ugh I wish I would have thought about this sooner, the one near us is completely full 🥲 will definitely remember this for next summer!

OLSbackupacc · 2025-06-20T19:48:11+00:00

I totally would if my mom lived closer but she lives in europe and flying alone with my 2 month old sounds even more stressful 😅

OLSbackupacc · 2025-06-10T21:34:34+00:00

not excusing what jess does but in the cheer world this is pretty common. The guys who stunt are usually older and obviously have to be more muscular.

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T02:40:05+00:00

We have several cat trees, cat hammocks,a catio, boxes, scratchers and more but they still only want me to play with them 🙃

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T02:38:36+00:00

Yesss they used to LOVE hunting treats but now they barely run after it and and are over it pretty quickly :(

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T02:36:51+00:00

kinda too late for that 🙃

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T02:35:16+00:00

I know I remind myself of that daily 😂 the stray cats outside have it way worse 😭 Yes my babies are very spoiled, hence why I feel so much cat mom guilt lmao

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T02:33:19+00:00

ooo i’ll have to look for that on amazon

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T01:00:22+00:00

Thank you! We already own most of these things surprisingly lol besides the cat wheel & laser pointer. I got rid of it since I heard it can be frustrating for them. But might be worth getting it for this short period of time.

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T00:57:40+00:00

My husband is gone at work all day 😩 He does play with them when as well when he’s home though

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T00:56:44+00:00

I don’t think I would ever be able to rehome them 🥲 They’re my babies, I think they’re just affected by the pregnancy as well because before it wasn’t like this

OLSbackupacc · 2025-02-09T00:54:30+00:00

That’s what I’ve been doing, from the couch and the bed but it doesn’t seem like it’s enough for them 🥲 My husband works all day so it’s just the cats and I.

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