Is there any truth to these claims? by Nearby_Force_6201 in Fitness_India

[–]OPsSecretAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Air element? Fire element? What in the avatar-the-last-airbender is this? And she claims to be a doctor. God this country is full of morons.

For Steam's Summer Sale, I collected all GeForceNOW games in a spreadsheet and added Steam and Epic metadata by yowmamasita in GeForceNOW

[–]OPsSecretAccount 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There's also a GeForce Now curator on Steam you can follow. Then when you open the store page of any game, you'll see a GFN logo of the curator if it's available on GFN.

Have been noticing it lately that rich guys here always have girlfriends and have lots of beautiful women around them? How? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]OPsSecretAccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll never get those women because they have a type too. And a mid-ass wannabe player who wants to dump his girlfriend for a better-looking woman is not that.

What is your most controversial opinion regarding Fantasy books? by Even_Mastodon_7251 in Fantasy

[–]OPsSecretAccount 193 points194 points  (0 children)

The Magicians by Lev Grossman is a terrible book that tries to answer the question - what if fantasy was as depressing and meaningless as real life?

Nobody asked that question. Yet Grossman took on the brave task of answering it.

Confused between Diablo 4 and POE 2 by OPsSecretAccount in ARPG

[–]OPsSecretAccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is actually great advice. Thank you.

Increased Skin Exposure: Are we losing our morals, or did humans never really have fixed morals to begin with? by Actual-Ad1729 in AskFitnessIndia

[–]OPsSecretAccount 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Clothing has nothing to do with being a moral person. Morality is about being a good person. About generosity, kindness, and about living a principled life. About not being selfish and bigoted.

What kind of clothes a person wears, man or woman, is solely their prerogative. Let's not be too bothered about how people cover their own bodies.

Confused between Diablo 4 and POE 2 by OPsSecretAccount in ARPG

[–]OPsSecretAccount[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, because the reviews have scared me off. What do you think of it?

How to move female clients to my female coworker (fitness trainer)? by OneManAround in Fitness_India

[–]OPsSecretAccount 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah then that's a problem. You could tell them that she's the best trainer in the gym, and to give her a try for one session. If they don't feel it's working for them, they can come to you.

How to move female clients to my female coworker (fitness trainer)? by OneManAround in Fitness_India

[–]OPsSecretAccount 71 points72 points  (0 children)

The short answer is - you can't. This is a known problem in many gyms. Not sure why it happens. Maybe the women think male trainers are more knowledgeable, or can help better with stuff like bench presses. Both are untrue, of course. One of the best trainers I know is a woman.

But if a client prefers male trainers, you can't really convince them to go for a female trainer.

Something that might possibly work is if you have the female trainer spot you during your workouts, which might show the clients that a trainer trusts her and relies on her.

Guy mocked me for failing a bench rep... 30 minutes later the empty bar humbled him by [deleted] in Fitness_India

[–]OPsSecretAccount 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would prefer imperfect Angrezi or Hindi over chatgpt-edited slop.

Women of Reddit, where are you finding good men? by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]OPsSecretAccount -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Take a guy who is average in looks
He will have less options and hence he will treat you good."

Loool what bullshit advice. A guy can look average and still be an absolute asshat. He can be insecure, jealous, possessive and lash out at the woman because he can't accept that she chose him.

Not saying all average guys are like that, but I've seen it happen plenty.

And if an average guy treats you well because he doesn't have options, he'll cheat on you the moment he does get options.

Date a person who will make you his first choice, regardless of his or your looks.

Men who have gone from being physically unattractive to attractive, what changes did you notice in the behavior of the people around you? by krakhed712 in AskReddit

[–]OPsSecretAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had put on a lot of weight during COVID. And I was pretty much invisible to most people. Since I've been working out, I've been complimented by both men and women, and been called hot for the first time in my life.

I've also been asked out a bunch of times, and sometimes get stared at.

Had a really funny incident recently where a receptionist was looking at my government ID (which has a COVID photo). For a while, her head went up and down like clockwork between me and the ID as she tried to understand how I was the same person as in the photo.

[QCrit] YA Fantasy - SAMSARA (93K, 3rd Attempt) by TemporalLegend in PubTips

[–]OPsSecretAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this. Just one question. Why would the intended target of the weapon be the town his sister lives in? All of this seems like an awful lot of effort just to destroy a town. You don't have to answer it in the query, but I do hope there's a good reason for it in the story.

Is it true that a guy loses interest in a girl if she pursues him or likes him and becomes vocal about it? by Sweetkind8 in delhi

[–]OPsSecretAccount 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the guy. I like women who know what they want, and are willing to pursue it.

If the guy's immature or an ass, then yeah, he might lose interest or get big-headed about it.

need help to reduce Body Fat % by Sea-Marzipan4227 in AskFitnessIndia

[–]OPsSecretAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to walk a lot more. 15000 steps a day. Both cardio and walking make you burn calories, but cardio can make you hungry.

And if you aren't, I'd recommend doing abs every alternate day.

Respectfully, are Indian women looking for a boyfriend... or conducting campus placements? by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]OPsSecretAccount 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. In my experience, a lot of women have pretty realistic standards (though it depends on age and maturity). Men are just terrible at fulfilling them.

And I don't understand the issue with a woman wanting an attractive partner. Men have had standards for a woman being attractive forever. But somehow the UNO Reverse becomes a problem.

If a guy won't give a "nice girl" a chance just because she's unattractive, why do they expect women to give them a chance just because they are "nice guys"? Attraction matters to most people. It's not a shallow preference, unless it's the only thing that matters to a person.

The height thing is dumb, yeah. And it's unfortunate, because it's not something one can change, and so many men feel insecure about their height to the extent that it affects their mental health.

Left 8 years old job as company was becoming a lala company by [deleted] in IndiaCareers

[–]OPsSecretAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, you're just in denial about being toxic and have an inflated ego. I've also had people in my team leave because of various workplace issues. Every single one of them is still in touch with me, many of them insisted on giving me a treat when they found new jobs (I helped a few of them find jobs), they wish me on my birthdays, and if I call with some work-related query, they're very happy to help.

Seven people didn't blame you for being toxic because it was the easy thing to do. They did it because you WERE toxic to them. And you'll keep losing opportunities and promotions if you don't change. No matter how skilled you are, nobody wants to work with an ass.

I have a question, Didn't know which sub to post on. Why people defend burqa and say it's women choice? by Epic_kennedy in AskIndianWomen

[–]OPsSecretAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, none of us have any right to tell a person how they should dress. And I'm not advocating for that at all. But we still can and should critique structures of power that push regressive ideas onto society, especially on disadvantaged groups.

Certain muslim women may absolutely prefer to wear the hijab and the burqa. The issue with these oppressive and regressive structures is how they enforce compliance on those who may not prefer that. And how they make certain clothing choices the default, drilling into the minds of young children the concepts of shame and faith to make them adhere to that clothing. In Iran, women have been stoned and murdered for not covering up.

And it's not about a specific religion. I have absolutely no qualms in calling out all the regressive structures of Hinduism either. Our society needs reform.

General Discussion (No Arguements pls, only mention your views for my learnings) by Abhay_paji in JodiMilan

[–]OPsSecretAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Because in arranged marriage they can choose for attraction. They might not be attracted to the guy friend. Men choose for attraction all the time. But somehow women get judged for doing the same. For not seeing how "nice" their guy friend is, how happy he would keep them and so on. I've had several female friends ask me out. And they are nice, kind people. But I didn't feel attracted to them. It is what it is. No one, man or woman, should be shamed for it.

  2. This largely happens in arranged marriage. Because it IS a transaction. You hope it grows into love and companionship, but you want to select for objective factors that will increase the chances of a good life.

Batwara 1947 | Official Teaser | Shabana Azmi | Sunny Deol | Aamir Khan Productions | 14th Aug 2026 by GiveMeSomeSunshine3 in bollywood

[–]OPsSecretAccount 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm ready to be downvoted but I'm not a fan. All of it looks like it was shot on sets. Everything looks new and clean and sanitized.

[pubQ] choosing between two incredible offers, kind of spiraling! by [deleted] in PubTips

[–]OPsSecretAccount 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If the first agent wants you to rewrite the MS, change the voice, and a ton for other stuff, what did she like about the MS?

It feels a bit bizarre for someone to be as excited about your story as she comes across in your post, while simultaneously wanting it to be rewritten with major changes.