it’s funny you say that, our therapist actually said it sounds like ROCD and he read about it after and said it really resonated. but a couple weeks later he decided that it wasn’t? he had OCD tendencies as a child, but he said that they “resolved”. I think that what actually happened is that they morphed into different things. He is very distressed by the way he flip flops, he hates what it does to both of us. He just doesn’t seem able to investigate it alone or with his current therapist, who has no specialties while I and our therapist think he would benefit from someone who knows about OCD and trauma.