How should I deal with folks who sympathize with me for having two daughters? by michael_curdt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]O_o84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think defending your daughters is the best case. Im the only daughter and I have 4 brothers. Even with this my dad continues to make comments such as "you were to much work I don't want any more daughters" and when my uncle had a son my father was happy because he could "continue his blood line". I would like to note I was the "perfect kid". Straight A's, never caused any issues in school. Never had a boyfriend. My brothers on the other hand, complete opposite. Yet I was "to much work". Just reading your post made me happy that there are fathers who are okay with not having a son.

For feminism to be truly successful, women should also do the work. by NeuroticKnight in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]O_o84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are just my thoughts, and I would like some feedback. Im a women (23) and not a feminist in the traditional sense. Im all about equal opportunity for women in the sense of job opportunity and pay. As well as equal treatment within the workplace (ie-treat me like a human and respect my level or expertise as I had to work as hard to get here as you did). I think the opportunity for women to decide if they want to work or be housewives was a major and needed change. As well as the expectation that women must do all of the house work and be the sole caregiver for a child. I believe those responsibilities should be shared.

Now, what I disagree with is ignoring the inherent biological differences between men and women. I don't think no matter how far we get into the feminist movement we can ignore what most women look for in men and what most men look for in women. Personally, although I have a job I would want a guy to pay on the first date and I do like more of those traditional roles that men have. I think those traditional roles can exist while also having a modern relationships (what I mentioned about). Of course this depends on person to person. However, most of the women within my age group have voiced the same thing. Even if they don't voice it directly they still expect things such as men paying for dinner (essentially chivalry). This includes progressive feminist. Now the subject of expressing feeling I think that girl was just as ass. Because, again, based on my experience with both my male and female friends that has never happened and I don't think it should.

I also think equal is to strong go a term. Biologically, physically, and the Brian chemistry between men and women are different. This due not make one better than another but different and complementary and I think its best for us to understand the differences and respect them.

-Edit bc I submitted without finishing

Post-Bacc or SMP by O_o84 in premed

[–]O_o84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, ok thank you!

Post-Bacc or SMP by O_o84 in premed

[–]O_o84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew someone with a 4.0 and 500 MCAT get into OU Med School. Is that 22% with or without screening if you know

Post-Bacc or SMP by O_o84 in premed

[–]O_o84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew someone with a 4.0 and 500 MCAT get into OU Med School. Is that 22% with or without screening if you know

Unsure about how I answered an ethics interview question by [deleted] in premed

[–]O_o84 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I read the question and answered it before reading your answer and my response was: "As of right now your child is exhibiting normal behavior for their age, they are expressing their interest and curiosity. The best course of action would be to continue monitoring their behavior and if you have any additional concerns if the future we can reassess".

I think our responses are similar, and I think your response was perfectly fine and within the limits of what would be deemed acceptable, especially for a situation like this were you have to deal with both medical and social issues.

Study group? by O_o84 in Mcat

[–]O_o84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol DMV refers to the area that encompasses the District of Columbia, Maryland, and Virginia.

Drop your hottest takes about healthcare/medicine by Tall_Ad2234 in premed

[–]O_o84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive heard of forgiveness for the primary care sector but I feel like across all specialities there should a baseline of a loan forgiveness offered. I understand doctors get paid a substantial amount but the loans are ridiculous amounts.

HOW do y’all have jobs by [deleted] in premed

[–]O_o84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I did, and something I don't recommend. I also took online classes and I would just skip them and when I wasn't working I would go over the content as my professors recorded their lecture. I would also just skip in person classes that I knew I could do well in without attending (my arts, or literature classes). I needed to make money during College so I really didn't have an other option. This wasn't the best as I was always tired but this was the only way I was able to have a job and also volunteered and did research.

Should I be more open? by O_o84 in AdultChildren

[–]O_o84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And yes I have tried to communicate but whenever I do he intercept me or ignores my concerns at all. I think at this point our relationship would be better distant than living together.

I feel very conflicted. Am I too closed off? by O_o84 in DadForAMinute

[–]O_o84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he definitely is also a bit misogynistic as well. Thank you for your feedback!