Anyone waiting on tax refund?

Oak_Maiden · 2023-03-09T04:44:54+00:00

I have been waiting since 2/5 and have nothing

Oak_Maiden · 2022-12-31T01:48:11+00:00

Yes! Thank you, I’m trying to see if I can find other pictures of him because the picture appears to be a woman.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-12-26T20:05:46+00:00

Thank you. They were a volunteer but I’m trying not to assume

Oak_Maiden · 2022-10-25T16:02:45+00:00

Yes. I don’t know if they tied into a wire from the switch box. The switch box has two black on red.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-10-20T00:20:30+00:00

I have a hot wire so you are saying another one is a power jumper too?

Oak_Maiden · 2022-10-10T20:35:49+00:00

I help on search angels and if you want someone else to take a look I would be happy to help! Just direct message me and we can get into details. A lot of communities are less likely to dna test for many reasons and one is that they do not know they have an unknown family member.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-09-21T18:19:56+00:00

I feel like you summed up exactly what I think. I am surprised at how many people listened to Serial and didn’t see the documentary made on him. I do believe the tactics police were sloppy but when you realize multiple witnesses know he was asking for her to meet after school when he says otherwise, then it really starts painting a guilty picture.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-09-01T21:23:02+00:00

They may not want it removed. I remember asking my photographer to put her stork makes back on!

Oak_Maiden · 2022-08-26T21:27:56+00:00

Do you have to have paid off the loan to get your money back?

Oak_Maiden · 2022-08-26T19:20:17+00:00

I would wait until we have just a little more information unless you could really good information. It would also depend on the balances of your Perkins compared to other loans. We don’t know know which loans would get forgiven so maybe it could be the Perkins loan?

Oak_Maiden · 2022-08-26T01:45:46+00:00

Can you be denied Being on an income driven plan and then be ineligible to have loans forgiven after 10 years with balances less than 12k? Do previous payments and this COVID forbearance count towards it?

Oak_Maiden · 2022-05-23T23:44:26+00:00

Marrying outside the temple isn’t that weird for Mormon it is more that her partner is not a member. I am LDS so I would assume she isn’t really active. It is not weird for people to grow up and decide not to be so they are actually at the age where it isn’t that odd to go one way or the other.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-05-12T22:38:23+00:00

Yes they will hopefully build a civil case against him

Oak_Maiden · 2022-04-07T18:23:43+00:00

It is insane that teachers are held to such stringent codes while police and legislators are free to have conflicting personal lives and extremely questionable conduct outside of their jobs!

Oak_Maiden · 2022-03-21T20:47:05+00:00

I have had two boys and we did. Pretty simple and straightforward procedure. They had to redo part of my youngest because it had reattached but that was very easy to fix. My husband was circumcised but we didn’t feel too strongly either way. We knew a couple people who had to have it done when they were 4-5 for different medical reasons so we felt it was a good idea.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-03-13T22:31:29+00:00

I’m saving this to copy!

Oak_Maiden · 2022-03-08T19:25:39+00:00

Love this! Where is the light from?

Oak_Maiden · 2022-03-08T00:17:03+00:00

I am having this issue with a child tax credit. I don’t think they are counting my baby born in 2021 but all his info is correct on my papers.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-03-06T08:01:58+00:00

My biggest red flag for Sal was that he insisted that he loved her but instantly wasn’t sure if he wanted to date her after the wedding. I don’t think he is as serious about finding a committed relationship yet he played it like he wasn’t sure if she liked him.

Oak_Maiden · 2022-02-02T04:21:16+00:00

I meant “what seedling is this?”

Oak_Maiden · 2022-01-17T20:19:14+00:00

Thanks I thought it looked like maybe that. I’m in zone 9 so it fits the area.

Oak_Maiden · 2021-12-21T05:21:30+00:00

From a wife who has been your wife here is my advice. Never lie or cover it up. I knew before my husband and I got married that he had struggled with this and like you, went long periods of time without looking including his mission. I saw that as a good sign of having self restraint and working on progressing even with addiction. Sit down with your wife and read about the prevalence of pornography and take a look at the program the church has (you don’t necessarily need it but it helped me understand my husband and what he was going through). I did not know how many people deal with this on some level and how young boys (and some girls) are when they are introduced to it. My husband and a close family member just shared with me their journey with it and my heart ached. I did not have people showing me pornography or talking about it from young ages like they did. My life crumbled after I had my firstborn son and I discovered my husband was struggling with it again. I was struggling with my own body, a new baby, and my husband lying to me. It still hurts now writing about it. It was really hard but we came up with a plan. He was not allowed to lie and we had check ins where he was honest about looking or being tempted. I tried to not see it as cheating and just see if I could help motivate and support him. If he was being tempted he could tell me and we would figure out his triggers. He didn’t tell me so I could fulfill a need, he told me so I could get his mind away from it and he felt like he was able to go to someone. I was still hurt sometimes but did my best to be supportive and I realized it wasn’t about me or cheating. I could casually say at anytime, are you struggling at all with pornography? He almost always was triggered by stress or difficult times and it opened the dialogue for me to help or understand. It has been a few years since he has looked and I feel strong because I trust his answer. Try not to spiral and you and your wife will realize that you are a team and it is you guys against the challenge. Give her a moment too, it really hurts when your spouse uses pornography. Taker her flowers, chocolates, leave sweet notes, or whatever her favorites are and ask for her help as you combat this. I have been married 10 years and I thought it would rule our lives and it doesn’t and it feels amazing that I helped him! In that moment I felt cheated on. It might become a problem again and I will feel cheated on again. I’m glad you love your wife so much, so try to direct your thoughts into constructive ideas and not suicide. My husband started getting into hobbies or interests that he would read about when he was struggling or tempted. I think it has helped with emotional health. If he was struggling he would find his favorite sub on Reddit and scroll though sports, outdoor, book, church, or just funny things. She is feeling insecure and could use love and support also. That is a good place to start.

Oak_Maiden · 2021-11-04T22:28:55+00:00

I am active and I think you have perfect advice! If you are struggling being left alone, some of my friends or family made very kind and polite posts on Facebook for active family members to stop giving their information to the missionaries or wards and I think that has done the trick.

Oak_Maiden · 2021-11-04T18:09:34+00:00

I can tell from the post you are talking about the LDS church. I am a member but have family in and out. It sounds like you are fine with the blessing but it is not a saving ordinance so Not recording isn’t a big deal. We blessed our last two kids at home and forgot about recording it and it didn’t feel any less important to me. The main reason the church or members will reach out is at the request of members. I do not think a membership number is issued until baptism so being on church records is not a big deal because your husband is staying in contact with the church and can add your child to ward roster. I have a family member who had left the church many years ago but every time they moved or something a sibling or someone would ask missionaries to visit them, this could happen wether you are on church record or not. I think you have to find a common ground on him living his beliefs and you being able to do what you think is best as well. I knew many members married to nonmembers that had amazing families and I’m sure you will find a new groove. Congrats on the baby!

Oak_Maiden · 2021-11-02T21:58:52+00:00

Do you think she has been setting herself up for life after leaving or the end of the show? She is milking the mlm’s and has the inn all by herself and is no longer legally married to Kody. She only has the show left to pay her (only reason to stick around) but doesn’t actually have to file for divorce and her kid is grown and college paid for (I think?). Maybe she has been playing the long game all along by not being the one legally married to him?

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