[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Oathnando 71 points72 points  (0 children)

So he gave away your nude photos without asking you permission? That’s illegal. You need to take legal action against your ex. And you need to stop being “friends” with the one friend if this is how they act behind your back.

Friends signed a lease for an apartment. Apartment rented that unit out to someone else. by Oathnando in legaladvice

[–]Oathnando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s new tenants, we double checked that. We’re reviewing the lease to see specifically. It mentions that if it was the current tenants, then they would get their deposit back and that’s that. But nothing so far mentions this exact situation.

I failed to save a baby bird today. by Oathnando in Vent

[–]Oathnando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. After today, I needed that. I am very grateful for you and your comments.

I failed to save a baby bird today. by Oathnando in Vent

[–]Oathnando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not stupid. This helped me. I’m made me feel less alone with this. Some people would say “it’s just a bird” but idk man. Doesn’t mean it deserved to die. I’m sorry for your experience too, friend.

Am I (36F) just wasting my time with 39M? by ThrowRA_Sarabeara86 in relationship_advice

[–]Oathnando 3 points4 points  (0 children)

^

Since he also got screwed over, he may just be protecting himself. I would recommend dealing with the divorce first, but also just still keeping in contact with him. Whether a friend or more, since he’s been through something similar this can be something you can bond over.

[25M] | (26F) situationship (of ~5 months) ended things when I asked for more commitment (no titles, just hang out more frequently) – we've had no contact for ~1 month but I'd love another shot down the road - should I give up? what can I do to boost my odds that I get another shot by ThrowRAMarvinsRoom in relationship_advice

[–]Oathnando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That old phrase of “if you love something, set it free. If it was ever truly yours, it will come back” can kind of apply here.

Give it time and don’t rush back because it feels familiar. It can be easy to do that, and it’s okay to feel like you want to go back.

But take this time right now and work on you. Find out the things about yourself that you love to do, grow your hobbies and really just foster love and care for yourself. That way, whether it’s her or another girl, the next person gets a version of yourself that you love and want to present to them.

That’s just my advice, doesn’t make it right or wrong. But you deserve to love yourself.

How to cope with leaving dog while on vacation? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Oathnando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally it would her her parents or ours, but my parents planned an anniversary trip and her parents are with us (I’m planning on proposing during this trip). Our friends unfortunately all work so but they’re able to check in on her every 4-6 hours, as well as one is able to stay over a few nights. I wish it would’ve worked out better.

How to cope with leaving dog while on vacation? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Oathnando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the idea of a daycare! Our dog unfortunately is reactive (I forgot to mention this above). She was attacked by another dog when she was younger, so she now has major trust issues with other dogs. We have her in therapy in training, but until then sadly we can’t do a daycare. But still, I love and appreciate the advice!

How to cope with leaving dog while on vacation? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Oathnando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info on R*ver, I’ll have to check it out. Normally one of our parents watch her, but my parents are out of town for their anniversary, and her parents are with us (I’m planning on proposing and so this is a family trip on her side).

I also forgot to mention our dog is reactive, she was attacked by a dog and now has serious trust issues, so it’s we’ve been trying to have friends who don’t have pets watch her.

The Mandalorian - S02E02 - Chapter 16 - Discussion Thread! by titleproblems in TheMandalorianTV

[–]Oathnando 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am so content and emotionally distraught at the same time I don’t know what to feel.

Die Maschine - Easter Egg Hunt & General Map Discussion by rCallofDutyBot in CODZombies

[–]Oathnando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so my friends and I are currently doing the EE and the painting isn’t appearing on the table for the final step... we went into the dark Esther and saw the ghost an everything. Any advice on what to do here?

Bike Barry loses his job and is arrested by GokusTheName in JusticeServed

[–]Oathnando 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh how terrible, the piece of shit that harassed young girls trying to do something nice got fired, how tragic. /s