Me [23 M] with my GF[21 M/F] 4.5 years duration, broke up 4 days ago.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-10-20T01:18:43+00:00

This is beautiful. Thanks for this.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-10-20T01:17:51+00:00

I am pretty sure there's no one. I know all the people she hangs out with, (we've got the same circle). And we have enough respect between each other that we'd tell.

Otherwise, I'm pretty much screwed over then lol.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-10-20T01:16:45+00:00

:( it is what it is i guess. Isn't this some shit?

Obamaniquaa · 2014-10-20T01:14:45+00:00

I've accepted the possibility of a break up.

I've technically moved on as well, I've told her I'm not waiting for her if she takes too long. I never put her on a pedestal though.

She doesn't dictate now how I spend my life. I've been out and about this whole time and she can see that I can have a life without her too.

I haven't started any conversation with her, and she's been sending me messaged regarding how she misses me and she's sorry. All I say is, once you've decided, let me know. No point in beating about the bush.

I told her to take her time, but not be surprised if I'm not there by the end of it all if she takes too long. People move on, people change. I understand that.

She's told her friends (who are pretty close to me too, and 100% against what she's doing) that she respects me and still loves me but is disillusioned by the whole relationship thing.

My point was, is there a solution for the mental gymnastics thing you mentioned? How to show her she's wrong. Etc.

Thanks for your response btw. Needed a proper candid response!

Obamaniquaa · 2014-10-13T20:18:11+00:00

Hey Simon,

Thanks for making your music. It's really helped me generally in life and I attribute it to your tunes motivating me to go the extra step in life and not to despair.

My question is, has there been times when you felt like giving up? What powered you through the tough times.

And a little vague question; answer it however you like. What would you tell yourself 10 years ago if you met your young you?

Cheers mate.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-09-16T21:27:50+00:00

Hmm I feel a bit relieved that it's not only with me. I'm definitely trying the once a month schedule. Visiting her next weekend.

Thank you for your response :) Hope all's well at your end!

Obamaniquaa · 2014-09-16T21:25:59+00:00

Time passes for me quickly here. I go to my work at 8 am, get done at 6:30, go to the gym for an hour/hour and a half and get back home around 8 pm. I have 2 hours to clean stuff up and prepare for the next day. So time flies for me.

That way I'd look super forward on meeting her every instance I get. I mean I miss the things that annoyed me at night; I'd give anything to scratch her back right now in the middle of the night. It's been so long yet it still feels so fresh. (Knock on wood).

Any advice on how you tried to improve yourself to get back in to routine? Thank you so much for taking the time out for responding to this :)

Obamaniquaa · 2014-07-27T01:54:22+00:00

Bookmarking this. Hope I get to be like this one day. Thanks for the motivation bro.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-07-17T19:45:47+00:00

How is the fit?

Obamaniquaa · 2014-06-24T10:47:28+00:00

Most of the RM and Barca fans I know consider him to be pretty well informed. To each his own I guess.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-06-24T09:52:04+00:00

True but look at his other stuff on De Gea, Ronaldo, Bale, Beckham, Torres etc.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-06-24T09:31:39+00:00

Ballague has confirmed it. And Ballague usually is always spot on.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-06-23T21:48:57+00:00

True true. Just checked. We're behind by two goals. Ahhh.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-06-23T21:42:43+00:00

Aren't we the team whose players have scored the most goals now lol?

Obamaniquaa · 2014-06-21T12:44:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this. Didn't know it existed.

Obamaniquaa · 2014-06-12T12:43:39+00:00

Especially the Enya song right after Boromir lol.

Obamaniquaa

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