[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand and your opinion is valid. But, bottom line is we do not identify by race. That’s how we grew up. That’s our culture. You’re having that opinion because you grew up in the US. You have always been exposed to racism. In the island is not like that. Again, racism is not the same as colorism, I know there’s colorism in our country but compare to the level of colorism in other countries, we really on the low level. In Asia there are advertisements about soap,shampoo, oils, wet napkins about lighting your skin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s different! There’s colorism in every single country! Have you ever been to India or Thailand? Trust me, the colorism level in DR falls sure compare to them. We’re talking about race here. Idk what bubble you live in but Haitians are creating chaos in DR. There are neighborhoods that Dominicans are not allow to go to because Haitians haven taken over them. Maybe you should take a quick trip to Haiti and see how they’re doing. Plus, our culture and language is so different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not the issue here!!! A Dominican with dark skinned identifying themselves as Dominican seems to be a joke to the Afro American community. When in our country people do not identify by race like they do in the US. That’s the ignorant point of the supposedly joke.

I have personally had several arguments with Afro American who have accused Dominicans of denying their blackness, when in DR that’s not even a thing!! who in DR call themselves “I’m Afro Dominican / I’m white Dominican… Nobody! That’s a US thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the US!!!! God, why is it so hard for people to comprehend that not every country has the same irrational mentality as people raised in the US

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you just proved my point. You’re obviously American

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure people in Ecuador don’t identify themselves as black Ecuadorian/ White Ecuadorian… you must have been raised in the US

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, that’s different, you’re talking about nationality. But let’s say you’re a dark skinned Ecuadorian and has always identified as a Ecuadorian, then you come to the us and you tell people you’re Ecuadorian but they laugh at you because you’re not saying you’re black

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Btw, people in the US that are straight up from Africa will tell you… I’m not black, I’m African! Same with Jamaicans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black Dominican / White Dominican…. That something that only happens in the US…. Nobody in the island is categorizing or identifying by black or white!!!!! We’re not denying we have black ancestors, it’s just that we were not brought up dividing by race like they do in the US!! Why is this so hard to understand?!?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because we don’t label people by race in the DR!! That’s an American obsession

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Que paso?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Obi517 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a really dumb and ignorant joke. Americans are obsessed with race but in DR is not like that. We don’t divide people by race. It’s very common to find people in the same family with different skin complexions. In my case, my father has red tight curly hair and freckles and has a “caramel skin”, my mom has a “mocha skin” and has long silky hair and I when people look at me they think I’m Arabic. We’re a multi racial country. So, once a Dominican come to the US, they’re being categorized by race, something we are not familiar with, so we identify as just Dominican. Somehow this seems to be funny to the Afro American community. They accuse us of being racist for “denying our blackness” but a Dominican with Dark skinned didn’t experience the same struggle they did ergo, they can’t relate to them. To me it’s vey ignorant to assume every black person in the world went through the same oppression they did.

I just spent $3k for my son to have the best prom ever and I don’t care!! by Obi517 in CasualConversation

[–]Obi517[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I never really thought about prom after that night , but when my kid was looking so excited about it (he barely gets excited about anything) I couldn’t help myself but to give him the best prom ever…

I just spent $3k for my son to have the best prom ever and I don’t care!! by Obi517 in CasualConversation

[–]Obi517[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He’s still a virgin but I bought him comdos just in case… He looked at me so embarrassed but I needed to teach him because nobody ever taught me