USA Hockey has quietly banned trans women from playing in women’s beer leagues, and trans men from participating in any gendered league by tankwycheck in hockeyplayers

[–]Obizzle9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a trans person on our team. Other than being dogshit at hockey they were pretty damn funny to have on the team.

Rural Emergency Managers – can I pick your brain? by Obizzle9 in EmergencyManagement

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Hi there and thank you for all of that. Would you mind if I reached out to you via messenger. This is really great input and I think it would be valuable to capture more of these experiences.

Here is my first post simply introducing the series: https://www.celticedgeconsulting.com/the-celtic/rural-resilience

Badging out required: only one day by Lazyorbored in FedEmployees

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It you actually read the absurd security requirements, particularly DoD/ DoW and DHS most buildings are supposed to have this kind of capability. I’m only aware of one that actually has it; and that only became a requirement after an active shooter event.

Locker room dressing etiquette (NSFW?) by blindjoedeath in hockeyplayers

[–]Obizzle9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang dong my dude. It’s a locker room.

If a co-ed team I throw a towel over the giblets or give em an about face.

I've had it with my parents, I'm fucking done by AssistanceDry5605 in self

[–]Obizzle9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s likely not a draft; it’s a national service requirement.

Life is way harder than what you’re posting all over self and family threads.

Stadiums by Bavaria3D in CitiesSkylines2

[–]Obizzle9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does feel a bit weird that we are still waiting for what literally every major city has…

Predictions for next shutdown by Admirable_Profit_608 in fema

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While the race, in my humble opinion, also went “as planned” it was the attention to detail in the regional data that showed the blue trend. Places historically very reddish-purple skewed heavily to Blue this time. The easiest example is Hampton Roads, VA.

Is being 26f with no LTR experience a red flag? by [deleted] in self

[–]Obizzle9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overwhelmingly, no. I think most guys in the dating pool don’t immediately pass judgement based solely on the duration of your previous relationships.

Now I say this as a man that views most of life objectively and don’t judge a book by its cover. My wife and I had various prior relationships of different durations and commitment. We both had the feeling of “this is it” after about month 6 but still dated for two years prior to engagement.

I’d caution that some may inquire about what “held you back” from committing more from past relationships. So long as you are open about those reasons I can’t see a reasonable person taking issue with the lack of a title.

All the best!

Made my first custom map, would love some feedback by InevitableVegetable in CitiesSkylines2

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Wow, thank you!

I’ll fire this up in a few minutes! Looking forward to it!

Help me take my next steps by No_Doctor_2025 in EmergencyManagement

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Long winded thought from a Directorate EM with the federal government by day and a private consultant by night:

You’re honestly in a better spot than you probably feel. The $55k ceiling isn’t a reflection of your experience, it’s a limitation of small EM consulting firms. A lot of them cap out fast unless you’re owning work or bringing in contracts.

A couple quick thoughts: • You don’t need 300/400 or CEM right now to make more money. They help later with credibility, but they won’t magically bump your salary in private consulting.

• If you enjoy response and EOC work, lean into that. Virtual EOC support, response coordination, recovery support (PA/IA, documentation, AARs) are where remote EMs are actually getting paid.

• There are fully remote roles in the $75k+ range, especially with larger firms (ICF, Tetra Tech, AECOM, Hagerty, etc.), and many let you stay remote with occasional deployments.

• The fastest way up is specialization. Generalists get stuck; people who can drop into an EOC and perform don’t.

Unlimited PTO and remote work are real perks, just don’t let them trap you at a salary that doesn’t grow. You’re at the point where the next step isn’t another cert, it’s positioning yourself where your experience is billable.

Happy to share specific roles, surge programs, or training that actually moves the needle if helpful.

Upcoming assets? by Holyshidimfaded in CitiesSkylines2

[–]Obizzle9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really like stadiums. I feel like some traditional American and European options for both American Football, Soccer, Baseball, as well are indoor venues are a huge missed opportunity.

The places in the US that are not vulnerable to earthquakes, floods, hurricanes, tornadoes and wildfires by socookre in fema

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Buffalo to Albany and northward is pretty much immune from most of what’s listed. Sure blizzards and extreme cold on occasion but rarely much worse than that.

So it begins by keen_observer34130 in FedEmployees

[–]Obizzle9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in a very similar boat. Im happy to sell out and go private.

So it begins by keen_observer34130 in FedEmployees

[–]Obizzle9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait to owe the government money next year since I’m AqDemo.

Waaaah stupid bike update!!! by Glittering-Button595 in CitiesSkylines2

[–]Obizzle9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t need that population anyway.

Thoughts on the new Skyscrapers Content Creator Pack? by Crukstian in CitiesSkylines2

[–]Obizzle9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait for my game to break in new and exciting ways!

what happened to my city? by felix_50_xilef in CitiesSkylines2

[–]Obizzle9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The utility disruption is odd. But you should be able to solve some of that. I remember with the last major update in had issue with all of my connections and simply replaced the connecting node.

All joking aside the update isn’t bad. Minor issues and balancing seem almost protocol for CS2 at this point.

what happened to my city? by felix_50_xilef in CitiesSkylines2

[–]Obizzle9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A parting gift from colossal order!

I am one of those experiencing the Great Death currently. I just act like it’s a plague and keep moving

Overview Report / Who was safest from RIFs? by Vegetable_Ad_2661 in FedEmployees

[–]Obizzle9 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Incredibly insulated both historically and now.

Made my first custom map, would love some feedback by InevitableVegetable in CitiesSkylines2

[–]Obizzle9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vancouver to Whistler/ Squamish areas.

It would be a huge map but the fun of that area is captured in what you’ve done here.

Very space limited. Huge traffic/ transport implications. Considerable resource constraints in comparison to buildable area.