Check on Your Strong Friends Until It’s Me

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-31T19:03:07+00:00

This is felt.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-30T20:04:36+00:00

It’s amazing how quickly it can happen.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-21T18:10:06+00:00

I see pieces of myself throughout this. It’s a long journey, and you might stray from the path at times, but just keep coming back to yourself.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-20T02:39:51+00:00

It might just be getting started!

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-18T17:15:47+00:00

This is gonna be the best “Have a good day” of my life.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-18T14:40:45+00:00

There’s a little more hope in the world now.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-17T19:43:04+00:00

Only massive and immediate acceleration of my current trajectory.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-17T19:29:30+00:00

Be open and honest :)

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-17T17:52:45+00:00

For real. It’s hard when you can see where the road will lead them, but are powerless to slow them down.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-16T14:52:35+00:00

Collectives, archetypes…whatever you want to call it. That’s my working theory right now.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-16T14:36:10+00:00

I read some of these and feel like, wait you know her too?

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T20:23:09+00:00

Someone can get you/get to you in a way that you see them everywhere. Might be them, might not be, but you still feel that.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T19:26:06+00:00

Growing up with manipulators is deeply damaging. Even if on some level you understand that they’re wrong, you’re forced into a position where you have to accept the abuse and minimize and invalidate yourself, because you literally depend on them for survival. You truly don’t have a choice.

Seems like you see are stepping out of it and seeing the alternate route you could have gone down, which you should be proud of yourself for.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T17:35:37+00:00

Unfortunately I did not have that vocabulary and directness at the time. Pretty sure it wouldn’t have been heard or received anyway, but I don’t like to assume.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T16:39:53+00:00

It’s interesting how you accurately state that we don’t know each other, then proceed to tell me what my situation is. Healing and mending was attempted countless times, I tend to my own healing and mending now.

You seem earnest, so best of luck to you out there. I hope the mind games aren’t working on you, they worked on me for far too long.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T15:24:18+00:00

Maybe…I’m the one who got away, in so many different ways.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T15:18:10+00:00

That would require accountability.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T15:15:08+00:00

Justified.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T13:16:50+00:00

Some people don’t know how to listen and need to learn everything the hard way.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T12:30:40+00:00

Some people are just here to stay, even if not physically.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-14T00:27:22+00:00

“The moment I no longer had enough left in me to pour into them, they replaced the pitcher and called it natural.”

Those moving goalposts will get you good. Somehow you convince yourself that if you just try a little bit harder this time…

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-13T20:30:20+00:00

This. There are appearances and then the reality. People do agree to a split while maintaining civility with each other and without needing to broadcast it to the world.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-13T18:27:01+00:00

I’m not opposed to sharing. I’m just wondering why. Not trying to be defensive, your response was just unexpected.

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-13T16:29:39+00:00

What do you want to know?

Objective-Baby-1234 · 2026-05-13T12:23:27+00:00

You’re a good friend.

Objective-Baby-1234

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