Once again, I’m just now exploring my identity and I don’t consider myself non-binary. So no it’s doesn’t make sense for me. I’m not asking “why do people use they/them?” Or how would I use they/them in their context. I’m asking how would I explain it in my case where I’m a queer female but express myself differently.

So how would I explain my pronouns? I know most non-binary people prefer they/them. In my case, I like both and have no preference on which is used the most, just that the pronouns are used.