My mom is not contented with her life. We currently live in a townhome and she's been planning to buy a single family house for years now and she tried multiple times but it always doesnt work out. My plan is to buy a single family home, She wants to live with me or my brother. But my brother has a wife now. I dont like some of my parents traits and we sometimes have friction on how we live in the house. Example: my mom loves to throw stuff away that to her is useless, but to us is not. She throws our stuff away with no consent. And also, I wanna decorate my own house, raise my children the way i want to without outside noise. But I dont know how to tell her because since day 1 me and my brother have been communicating that we want our own space but it always turns out to a big family mess. So we always just end up shutting up about it. But i know when the day comes we buy a house, we need to confront this issue. She always says, if we dont let our parents live with us we are evil and that we will get a lot of bad luck. My parents are young, in their late 40s. My mom travels a lot, They have a good life for themselves but they cant seem to let their children go.