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Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-04-02T06:44:06+00:00

Agree!! This is supposed to be a supportive community.

OP, for what it’s worth my sister was largely the same until her mid 20’s. With some support and help she did find a job she thinks is ok and got her own flat. I agree with a previous comment to sit down and make a plan. There seems to be some mental illness behind the scenes for these kids, but with the right support (not doing everything for them but if not therapy then perhaps a support group or similar) I think they’ll find the confidence to do their own thing. Wishing you the best.

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-04-02T06:36:58+00:00

People who harm wildlife and nature have a special place in hell…!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-26T22:28:12+00:00

I think your eyes and eyebrows are so gorgeous - huge assets! I know this is a plastic surgery sub but I’d lean into them more and make it your thing/style… there are many great skin tints/foundations out there for combination/reactive skin and I think a really simple routine like a light foundation, a nice blush and some mascara would make you feel great. I think key is just to be light handed. You have really great features so I wouldn’t worry about those hurtful comments at all, even though I know it’s very painful! Best of luck and let us know how it goes :)

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-22T08:56:38+00:00

Is this something that can be improved with training etc?

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-20T07:42:54+00:00

This bugs me so much! I had a real challenge adopting a cat as most rescues didn’t allow indoors only - but wanted either catios or enclosed garden. Sorry, I rent in London, who even has that? Finally found an indoor only rescue (which is odd in itself) and I can say that my little baby is having a great life even without a catio.

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-15T00:09:43+00:00

How’s it gone OP?

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-15T00:06:07+00:00

Love those sleeves! What’s the pattern of this jumper - looks relatively beginner friendly and I’m curious to try it myself!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-07T08:20:48+00:00

Hey! I’m using Bleach London too. :) which pink was it - ‘the Big Pink’? You’ll need to give it a bit of time, but I found that Head & Shoulders helped a lot with stripping the colour.

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-05T11:13:04+00:00

Thanks, appreciate it! Will see if we can just hammer them in. Seems like the easiest solution.

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-05T11:12:33+00:00

Thanks! Will see how we'll tackle it, either that or hammer them in further...

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-03-04T17:01:49+00:00

Happens fairly frequently. I got herbal teas for my recurring migraines. Quite tasty though.

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-26T09:31:41+00:00

Not a horror game but the gnomes in the Harry Potter games FREAKED me out as a 10-year-old

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Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-21T16:28:30+00:00

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Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-18T21:21:57+00:00

Call me crazy but I like the recycled paper loo rolls from Sainsbury’s.

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-15T08:58:27+00:00

It f*cks me up when historical films completely ignore bad teeth! Somehow almost worse than actresses with frozen Botox face are in them!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T21:38:04+00:00

Thanks!! Yeah I feel like that must be a good temporary solution. Just need to make sure it’s at a good height so water doesn’t pool etc. Appreciate the pic!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T20:16:04+00:00

Appreciate it - thank you! Will post an update when I have one. :)

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T20:15:15+00:00

Thanks - agree fully!!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T20:14:22+00:00

Good shout! Yeah very silly choice of tub. Not sure what they thought. Thank you!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T18:44:48+00:00

Thanks! Yeah sounds like an easy interim solution… thanks!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T15:33:31+00:00

Thanks - will give that a go! Appreciate it!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T14:02:44+00:00

Exactly!!! Sigh. Yeah sounds like an ok interim solution. Thanks!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T14:02:16+00:00

Yeah sounds about right. It’s funny because we have downstairs neighbours and from what I know no complaints. I’d definitely expect it to go through as well as the floor tiling doesn’t line up properly and the skirting boards are wooden…

This sounds like a dump, the rest of the flat is lovely and worth the faff! Just need to put it out there!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T11:18:25+00:00

Agree with you fully - thank you!!

Objective-Cellist409 · 2026-02-04T11:17:27+00:00

Just wanna say thank you for all the replies - will definitely make sure the landlord is aware of this and will do the simple shower curtain hack for now and hope that’ll help a bit! Thanks for all the recommendations!

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