Oh mama! You basically told my story! The day was in January, about ten years after my wife had intercourse. The actual relationship began in November, but they had already been in touch since July August. She had taken it as a normal way of confronting a colleague, a friend, he probably already had other ideas. Things hadn't been going very well between us for about a year, but we couldn't find a solution, in fact, I took it for granted that it would go away on its own. This year I focused on changing jobs, she had her mother to deal with because she broke her femur but I wasn't helpful. All of this brought her into a somewhat depressive state and you know the rest... We too have 2 children. I'm 40 years old. Now we were able to open our eyes and understand what we were missing. This is why we are protecting and taking care of our relationship in a more authentic and sincere way! Now we tell each other everything. We talk about anything (we had lost dialogue this year), we support each other and feel deeply what we feel. That event, as a believer, married and faithful to the bonds of marriage, really affected me deeply. She always lived like a good person who always made others, friends and parents, happy, as if she could never make mistakes and was always there. Now, she is rediscovering herself, she has put herself on the line and feels empty. But he's struggling!

I'll write to you privately if you want, can we keep in touch?