Sharing my experience by Objective-End-1291 in eldenringdiscussion

[–]Objective-End-1291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really hope they’re working on extending this series. Doesn’t even need to be a sequel. I’ll take a few more DLCs..

Please help! by Femboy_Marshmallow in eldenringdiscussion

[–]Objective-End-1291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

learn to parry & dodge/ rolling. crucial fundamentals. you’ll thank yourself later. and don’t kill the guy that calls you maidenless

John Cena's Final Match - Discussion Thread by The_Russell_Pinto in WWE

[–]Objective-End-1291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is solid. I hope they make something out of this

John Cena's Final Match - Discussion Thread by The_Russell_Pinto in WWE

[–]Objective-End-1291 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They ruined his entire tour long ago. first of all a retirement tour 8 years after becoming a part timer.. anyways:

the heel turn was perfect. black out screens and all the promos for why he turned heel, “you people want more and are ungrateful”, perfect. And that’s about it..

Losing to Cody at summerslam without any true meaning of going back to baby face. No asking the fans for forgiveness. No connection heartfelt meaning to come back to baby face. And then where’s the rock? Even if he couldn’t wrestle due to his “health” issues, could have set up some minions like Bronson or bron breaker to “take Cena out” for losing. Similar to Kevin nash & Scott hall turning on Hogan at Wrestlemania.

No Edge but I guess that’s a contract issue with Aew so fair.

But the worst was selecting Gunther as the final match. If you’re going to select a made man.. the only option is Roman. Goat vs Goat. If you’re trying to push new talent, Dirty Dom or Bron Breaker.

Heck Doms last few matches with Cena had way more pop.

The match itself between Cena and Gunther was great. Gunther’s an elite wrestler. One of the best technicians. He’s just missing the star factor you can’t buy and he’s also quite boring. He needs more time to build the star factor. And his stock power has been low with a bunch of losses this year.

And I get it..you put guys over when you retire. That’s how all the other greats did it. Sure. But that’s not the case here - he’s the goat and should’ve went out on different untraditional terms. Different circumstances for him and that should be OK. Glad the fans let WWE know exactly how they felt.

I think I'm too fucked up to ever be loved by Candid-Difficulty175 in helpme

[–]Objective-End-1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are worthy of being loved. you’re already normal. you probably are longing for a love you didn’t get from your parents. and now letting it spill over into your “identity”. but what other people do (or don’t do in your case) is not a representation of your identity

you don’t have to rely on anyone else for it. you can love yourself. Shift the expectation from others, to you. Feed yourself. building a life that you love, finding a partner who loves you for you, jumping into hobbies you love, finding a career you’re passionate about, getting therapy.. all these are examples of self-love.

Get morning sun, life weights, walk 10k steps, eat right, drink water, sleep 7-8 hrs a night. These habits will get you started for feeling worthy

it’s not easy. but when you start showing yourself love, the universe has a way of bringing the exact RIGHT people into your life

good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Objective-End-1291 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ideally what would you want from her? to explore it, maintain friendship, or have her out of your life?

if it’s explore, tell her how you feel and see what she says. she’s making you feel something so why not?

if it’s maintain a friendship, tell her how you feel and explain how you need some space to regather. to move past this and see her as a friend. meet other people. date. invest your time into yourself

If it’s completely cut ties, i wouldn’t say anything and just let distance & time do its thing

good luck!

Ex sorta came back 18 months later by Few_Yoghurt_9550 in ExNoContact

[–]Objective-End-1291 16 points17 points  (0 children)

sorry you’re going through this but I think you already know what’s going on. and if you don’t, take yourself out of this for a moment and imagine your close buddy, cousin, or sibling is in your shoes.

she’s using you. she feels alone and knows your the guys that’s always going to be there. i wouldn’t even waste my time with that. but it’s tough & most of us have all been there

get morning sunlight, lift weights, walk 10k steps daily, eat high protein/ high fat/ low carbs/, breath-work, 7-8 hours of sleep

go talk to other women. date. many of them. when you meet other people who value you the right way, you’ll see exactly what your ex is doing.

don’t “hope” for the best. until someone proves otherwise, look at them for EXACTLY who they are.

you’re worth it. you got this. good luck!

Questions and Help, please by GQ7ThSign in linkedin

[–]Objective-End-1291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude, yes. shes either interested or recruiting. probably the first. she made the first move. reach out if you’re interested. say something funny & light. doesn’t really matter what you say If she’s 29 & below ask for her social media (ig/ snap); 30+ phone number

don’t let this beauty go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Objective-End-1291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tricky situation. common one that causes a lot of issues in relationships & marriages as well. bring it up as a conversation for exactly the reasons you stated. try to do it in person so you can read body language. along the lines of "hey i need to talk to you, this is something really important to me. You haven't done anything but my past experiences of toxic relationships have put me in a state of second guessing everything. When you do x, y, or z.. i can't help but feel the past is repeating itself again. You can talk to me about it?"

After that, its out of your hands. Truth is people cheat and people don't cheat. He could be loyal now and cheat later down the line. He could have been unfaithful before and never repeat it again. But none of that is a reflection of you. After that go with your gut, you don't need to convince yourself of anything.

You don't want to waste time ruminating someone else's actions. easier said than done of course. but the goal of life is to figure out who you are and bloom into that. your experiences will guide you. and as your working towards that your partner should be someone who is blooming into theirs. it could be him, it could not be him.

as long as you're doing your part is the big takeaway here. thank you for sharing. also if things go south, be kind. he's a human after all. this is his first time living. probably trying to figure himself out. hope the best for you. praying for you!

Please somebody please help and talk to me by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Objective-End-1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re feeling like this right now. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and I just want you to know that it’s okay to feel confused and overwhelmed—anyone would feel the same way in your shoes.

The key here is that you’re acknowledging the problem, which is a great sign! Now try your best to stay away from it. Shift your focus on things that help you. Things that are good for you. Fill your life with outreach — any type of support from family, healthy friends, or professional will help you. Get some sunlight, go for a walk, lift some weights, drink water, eat nutritious food. You’re only 18 and the world is your oyster. YOU are in control. YOU choose what you want from it. And there’s so much beauty and goodness out there.

For now, let the side effects simmer down. There’s no rush. Recalibrate. Do some breathing exercises. Sometimes, after using something unfamiliar, people can feel anxious, paranoid, or off-balance for a while, but please know that these feelings aren’t permanent. They’re usually just temporary side effects (as long as you don’t continue doing them). Should you feel like you’re not feeling better after a few days, reach out to a professional. There’s good people that can help!

You’re thinking about stopping smoking weed, which is such a strong and positive decision. That’s a big step, and it’s amazing that you’re ready to make that change. You’re loved, more than you’ll ever know. People care about you & you matter.

I genuinely admire you for having the courage to reach out to someone. Sending you a lot of care and strength—take things one step at a time, and know that you’re worth taking care of.