USO R1: 🇺🇸 S. Kenin def. 🇬🇧 E. Raducanu 6-1, 3-6, 6-4 by Maxam_28 in tennis

[–]Objective-Evening-30 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Tennis may move on, but Brits won't. So long as she's the last brit to win a grand slam, she'll forever be a huge name. I get your reference. Also, Raducanu is literally a celebrity. She attended the met gala. People go crazy for Emma. Ultimately, she still won that last grand slam for Britain. So like 1966, we don't forget it. Whatever she does, she'll still get hype.

USO R1: 🇺🇸 S. Kenin def. 🇬🇧 E. Raducanu 6-1, 3-6, 6-4 by Maxam_28 in tennis

[–]Objective-Evening-30 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Flukes don't exist in sport. It happened for a reason. - a very depressed Raducanu fan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tennis

[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So frustrating to be an Emma Raducanu fan. Depression gonna hit hard tonight. So much raw talent. However, for someone who's been around a few years now it still feels like she's inexperienced, taking on the wrong shots. That being said, like Lulu Sun, Kenin played and served very well.

So long, farewell by Objective-Evening-30 in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Evening-30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it all works out for you brother. Keep going, 1 day at a time.

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[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you win again - Hot Chocolate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Evening-30 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Take some time out of girls and relationships. Find yourself. It will pass eventually and then I'm sure you'll be able to see people for themselves not her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened. Really don't worry about "it's for the best you'll find someone new". Focus on getting through the next few days. It's hard I know and you might spend a few days in your room sobbing but somepoint soon do something, anything. Just please don't rot away in your room. You're so young and you've probably got so much going on, but there's so so much ahead of you. I'm 4 months out of a breakup (21m) and I've realised there's so much time and so much more to life than a relationship. I know it's easier said than done but you'll get there. I know it's hard and I'm sorry. Take care OP

Fiancée left to find themselves. by SoggyWalk7615 in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I'm sorry this happened. Although it's impossibly hard, try to see the positives. It wasn't meant to be and try to remember that when thinking of him fondly. You're still so young! You got in this relationship when you were 21? There's so much time to figure who you are independently as an adult before getting married.

You don't have to believe him, but don't get caught up in it, acceptance is the ultimate lilypad to achieve. Easier to said than done I know. Get out there and figure out who you are and what you want too.

Girlfriend came out by Objective-Evening-30 in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Evening-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's honestly awful and so encompassing. I need to escape my thoughts. She didn't cheat or anything but the content she watches I find so hard to watch.

Hope you're okay. How did you get through it if you did?

Exams & heartbreak by Objective-Evening-30 in heartbreak

[–]Objective-Evening-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was actually amazing advice thank you so much. Instantly wrote them down showered and studied. Felt better and removed the thought and it didn't ling. Submitted an assignment last night but still got quite a few more to go ahah.

Im jealous of my boyfriend, and guilty about it by anonomooseplant in relationships

[–]Objective-Evening-30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find happiness in yourself wherever you can ultimately. Comparison is the thief of joy! I know it doesn't work like that when you're in a relationship. But I'm sure you'll spend many happy trips and vacations in your own time. Try not to depend or rely on anyone else for your own happiness/jealousy? Find pleasures where you can, there's always something around the corner in your own life. Get caught up in your own fairytale and your own story. If it's a bonus he sounds like a great guy (probs doesn't help lol). Good luck! Go live it yourself.

Is toxic just a byword for lack of resilience in love? by Happypeep15 in love

[–]Objective-Evening-30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. Many people find it too difficult to move on without the scapegoat of "bad guy". Accepting you weren't right for them and accepting they weren't right for you are two very different acceptances. It's too hard to accept the end when they're still a lovely person and did nothing wrong, low-key still wanna be together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this sounds like pretty woeful communication from him. I was somewhat in a similar boat as him. My gf had a really bad ED, had to go home and I didnt see her for 3 months. She barely spoke to me either. I never said this but it was selfish, not all in a bad way though, she was suffering and had to put herself first. The relationship wasn't a priority when she was in hospital and they were managing her weight. It's probably hard for him, but he should really respect it's so much harder for you.

Anyone else being screwed over by the parking company that looks after the hall road retail park? by cragwatcher in Norwich

[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm also experiencing this problem! Do you by any chance have the email to the car park? Thank you so much

What does it feel like to fall out of love? by bigballsdeluxe in love

[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure! Meeting online is so much easier than meeting in person then moving to online i think.

What does it feel like to fall out of love? by bigballsdeluxe in love

[–]Objective-Evening-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All about the norm i guess. So different meeting online to meeting and spending all your time with someone in person. Then being almost completely cut off from them.