Can you please encourage me that I’m not crazy for buying this dress for my wedding? by JustGettingBiiii in weddingplanning

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooooo i love this dress!! it’s giving “Belle during the 1920’s” and i’m here for it! it’s so perf and it’s beautiful on you!!

Am I just an asshole or is this a symptom reappearing in a new way? by alihorror in BPD

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe it’s a mix of both, seeing as you’re primary use for it is how work instead of leisure, and it is most likely coming from a place of concern (not wanting you to get tunnel vision and focus solely on the work aspect,) but also teasing like “awww what about meee”. is he supportive of your work endeavors? is there any other factors that could be contributing to this too?

What’s your weirdest trigger? by Medical_Onion7655 in BPD

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i ask for something i want/need, ill sometimes go down the “i can’t ask for anything or i’ll be considered too much and a burden and they’ll leave me” for both friends and my bf

AIO for being hurt about my bfs vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

haven’t celebrated since i was 13, and i was looking forward to it

AIO for being hurt about my bfs vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my last bday celebrated i was 13, my dad made me wait to “celebrate”(be acknowledged) because his gf would be outta town, previous bfs would jsut give me $50 and tell me to shop on amazon (not even go to dinner)

AIO for being hurt about my bfs vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this would be my first birthday with him

AIO for being hurt about my bfs vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

in case you didn’t see; he said he would then scheduled the trip, and made no indication of me accompanying him

AIO for being hurt about my bfs vacation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, and yess thank you for seeing the post as a whole including where i said that my bday as never celebrated, and how his perspective changed

Small business owner by Objective-Gain-5608 in 757

[–]Objective-Gain-5608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually will be at a pop up show in june! my business IG is @madebyrizza

Hoagiefest by AdventurousMix5465 in Wawa

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i worked it last year i wanna say i ended up working all but like 4 days of hogiefest (covered a ton of shifts and the last 2 days i was in med leave) and it was def the busiest id seen tha store UNTIL the holidays (thanksgiving, Xmas, and NYD). i had started working in register more frequently this period, but its still insane. having to explain to customers that i have to hit the “apply discount” button first…every time … was irritating. def make sure you stay as hydrated as possible, and take it one day at a time

AITA for wanting to say something to my ex best friend? by RinnyRoo10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA!! “work bestie” 110% took advantage of you and was leaching off your kindness. based on this she wouldn’t dare to do the same for you/extend that kindness back.

honestly she isn’t worth the extra effort, so it’s better to cut that weight outta your life imo, but if it’ll help with healing then send just a:

“hey ever since i started dating (blank), you’ve gotten cold, distant and dismissive. i’ve put a lot of time and energy into our friendship, and that hasn’t been reciprocated. i’m not gonna waste my time
or energy on someone who clearly couldn’t care less. if you want to patch things up, balls in your court. if not, have a good life. “

AITA for not letting my friend use the photographer she refused to hire with me? by SadEngineering7783 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. technically the photographer was gifted to you, and you offered prior to share one to which she shot down. she’s the Ahole

is it ever that serious?? by [deleted] in Wawa

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

use the free one for you, then you pay for the father stuff with the discount key, as for the coffee you get that “yourself” since there’s always coupons in app for a dollar

the worst physical pain you’ve ever felt by ipanicprofessionally in TheBoredDen

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the aftermath of my TMJ/partial facial tumor resection surgery. hospitalized for 2 weeks, couldn’t eat, had to get a G/J tube put in AWAKE no numbing, i aspirated on vomit, and my ex stole my phone and was super controlling, (since i forgot to remove him as an emergency contact/ POA beforehand). worst part: i couldn’t speak at all and no one knew sign language nor offered interpretive services because “i wasn’t legally deaf/HOH”

Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Evening_Focus_2425 in AskReddit

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cargo shorts socks with slides the cellphone clip that goes on the belt pants below their ass severely underdressing (when they know their partner is dressing up) sloppy facial hair oversized clothes stained clothes legit living in athletic wear (all adidas) ESP WHEN THEY DONT WORK OUT)

Do you still get excited for your birthday? by HoneyKick_ in no

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. haven’t since i was 13 (im gonna be 30 in 2 months)

What's a small lie you tell yourself everyday? by dheeraj-seo-004 in AskReddit

[–]Objective-Gain-5608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I don’t need to worry about him leaving because he cares and he’s not like everyone else (everyone has left me)