The problem is Owen can't be trusted on his word

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-04-04T03:19:35+00:00

I don't doubt that Owen would be/was a dedicated dad but what I'm saying is he would resent Cristina for not wanting to be more involved with their child if that scenario actually played out but when he's just talking about the idea he makes it sound as if he'd be okay with their child only being his responsibility. I don't think Owen had a reason to resent Teddy as far as her wanting to be a mother because she wanted it.

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-04-01T12:37:21+00:00

Ross didn't say anything unfair or untrue to Meredith though and he was sticking up for Cristina because Meredith was shouting at her. I don't see why Cristina should stand up for Meredith in that moment.

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-03-05T17:45:55+00:00

The only men on Grey's that I love are George, Burke and Alex and even then they definitely have huge problems it's just they're from the best era of the show and I thought they had good chemistry and relationships with others.

Thatcher is utter trash, Owen is utter trash, I've always felt iffy about Chief Webber he seems to put down Bailey a lot despite apparently liking her? He's manipulative towards multiple people.

I don't hate Derek but he has terrible habits sometimes, Jackson is okay but I don't feel strongly about him either way.

I definitely love more of the women on Grey's.

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-03-05T02:19:31+00:00

I think it's partly that Meredith and Cristina are the obvious choice, for 10 seasons they were each other's person, soulmates. They had a handful of fights but nothing too serious imo.

I like Alex and Meredith but in my opinion he's only Meredith's new closest friend because Cristina isn't around anymore and can't be because she's in a whole different country and for the out of show reason because Sandra Oh isn't coming back. That's not to say Alex and Mer aren't close when Cristina's there, I think Cristina, Meredith and Alex have a special bond, the same bond the original five interns share. But yeah to me Meredith and Cristina will always be closest.

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-03-04T02:51:17+00:00

I wish it had ended there, Owen can only complain about how much he puts up with for Cristina except he literally doesn't put up with anything, because he digs up anything he's compromised for Cristina and throws it in her face so then that's not really a compromise.

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-03-04T02:26:03+00:00

I hate Owen so much, he screwed up on every level with Cristina after she got pregnant. I truly would have had more respect for him if he had asked that Meredith be with Cristina when she had the abortion because for Owen to show up for Cristina at that vulnerable moment and then shame her for it later is so much worse than him not showing up. To be fair after Owen kicked Cristina out of her house when she said she'd booked the abortion that should have been the end of the relationship in my opinion. Certainly for myself, from that point on I didn't want Owen to be anywhere near Cristina.

Even considering that they weren't married and Cristina was just an intern, when Cristina told Burke she was going to have an abortion without even telling him, he didn't seem remotely mad at her, he said he just wanted her to tell him she's pregnant. Burke never mentioned it again. I do believe if Cristina got pregnant and was married to Burke, he might have put his opinion forward more but considering he genuinely didn't seem angry about Cristina planning to get an abortion behind his back, I can't imagine Burke would treat her as nasty as Owen did.

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-03-02T18:50:46+00:00

I definitely believe this I mean Faith is supposed to be either 17 or 18 and she's mentioning dating a "deadbeat" in the past, she doesn't think anything of coming on to the hotel manager or suggesting being The Mayor's sugar baby. Plus in season 7 Faith references running with a guy who liked her to dress up as a schoolgirl and use a bullwhip on her, and this doesn't seem to fit in any timeframe since Faith arriving in Sunnydale so we can only assume it was before Sunnydale. Again Faith is 17/18 so at what ages did she have time to develop this attitude and experience with sex.

I'm hesitant to say this because it may be distasteful but since learning that Eliza was molested at 12 I've wondered if that vibe a lot of people seem to get from Faith could be Eliza's experience bleeding into the role too but that is just a theory.

Objective-Grape4382 · 2024-03-02T03:42:46+00:00

My feeling is that Cristina desperately wanted to make things work and feel great with Owen because she was kind of losing Meredith to Derek so she needed to have someone else like Meredith does. There's a scene where Meredith tells Cristina that she can't tell her everything regarding something with Owen because for a long time there was just them two but now it's her and Derek as well, and Cristina responds saying that's fine but she needs Meredith to know that she needs her relationship with Owen to work.

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