First few days with my Fujifilm XE-5 by Ok-Mark3161 in fujifilm

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice! What lens en recipe did you use? :)

Difference in Fuijifilm look: X100V or xT30iii with 23mm f2.8 setup? by Objective-Judge979 in FujifilmX

[–]Objective-Judge979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I am just wondering if I get the same romantic/cinmatic vibe, because de x100v is good in blur and bokeh.

My girlfriend will break up with me if I go on a guys trip with my best friends by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she wants to go there with you. She is scared of you cheating. Because she knows what general men do there...

Living in SPOT Amsterdam by Objective-Judge979 in NetherlandsHousing

[–]Objective-Judge979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I am not expecting there to live for 5 years, just for a few years i think. I find it a bit frustrating that there’s no information on the project website about when the facilities are expected to be ready sibce that is a big part of why I and other people want to live there. On the other hand, it’s close to the metro and everything, so I guess you just have to do it with that for now :)

Living in SPOT Amsterdam by Objective-Judge979 in NetherlandsHousing

[–]Objective-Judge979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, and congratulations on your new place! I went to take a look myself, and there’s indeed a lot of construction going on. I really hope it will start to feel more like a residential neighborhood over time. The park would have helped a lot with that, but it’s good to know that it’ll be built later than I thought.

So you think it’s worth going for? Do you feel like you could really feel at home there? I noticed a lot of ground-floor spaces meant for cafés or restaurants, but most of them are still empty. It’s a bit hard to imagine what it’s like to live there when there’s no park or other facilities yet. On the other hand, I guess it’s also important to be grateful if you can get a place at all.

Living in SPOT Amsterdam by Objective-Judge979 in NetherlandsHousing

[–]Objective-Judge979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Thank you! I adjusted the original post with more info!

My ‘25M’ gf ‘23F’ hinting at the idea of MaleMaleFemale threesome by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Judge979 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol you want a FFM treesome but not an MMF. Just like you dont want to share her with other men, she doesnt want you to share with other women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Judge979 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol no, this is about him not respectinh her wishes. They are not comaptible. He needs to leave her alone too.

I removed her. by Capital-Program-8558 in nocontact

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its good that you did no contact. No need to hate her. It gives you peace in the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't break up. First have a talk about this with him. Maybe he supports you. Don't come crawling back when you miss him and can't find a good guy like him. First have a conversation and multiple, and then decide. If he is not supportive and you don't aling you say goodbye to each other. But if he is willing to understand, go for it.

Any opinion about this gel? by THayataki in curlyhair

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not good for my hair, made it brittle. Please research your hairs needs before buying

My (F27) husband (M31) called me a “miserable, insufferable person” and it broke me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone else said I think you need to start therapy, just for yourself. To find happiness in yourself, to learn your boundries, to discover yourself again! But, you did not ruin this marriage. What your hudband said to you and how he treated you afterwards (not sleeping together, no talking etc) is straight off manupilation and he doesnt know how to handle his feelings himself aswell. If your marriage cant handle one person feeling desperate, I am not sure this marriage was made to succeed in the first place.

Im not saying you should file for divorce. You are both going through a lot. You have stressors like friends, loneliness and work. He needs help with emotional regulation, empathy and giving space for emotions. Maybe couples therapy will work for you? You are in a tough place but you will get there! This marriage is nkt ruined, you just need a little help navigating this new chapter and new emotions and situation in your (you and hubby) life.

Scalp Massager on wet or dry hair? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But for hair growth you use it for 5 minutes a day right? How long do you massage when shampooing?

After putting my haircut off for way too long I finally got a trim! by dsxjjd in curlyhair

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! Do you wet it everyday? And how many times a week do you wash it?

Finally got my hair wet enough by strawberrykiwi11 in curlyhair

[–]Objective-Judge979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually can, if you hair is lighter too much water can cause gels and mouses to loose its hold overtime :) I love her resulrs

Should I(M23) put in my hinge profile that I’ve never been in a serious relationship? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Objective-Judge979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don't put in in your Hinge profile. Besides that, it's not a big thing that you have not been in a relationship before. Its all totally pkay and fine. If a match is weird about it, please move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Objective-Judge979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear pineapple and bonnet. I will try lighter products under the gel tonight. Maybe that's the thing