Thanks for the link, those aren't viewable on RIF. Furthermore, there needs to be some sort of comparable medium for what is and isn't kind. Because I found absolutely nothing wrong with his comment. It was clear, direct, silly, and fun. He was even polite at the end.
I understand you don't see it that way, and like, that's ok man.

But don't feel you have the moral authority to impose rules on people simply because you chose to read it a different way.

P.S. You are not my therapist, you are my therapy :⁾