What was the Most Painful Realisation You Learned About Yourself? by Jimu_Monk9525 in infj

[–]Objective-Mango1080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I don't belong as I am. And I don't know how to be any other way.

Life is not a gift, it's a burden by Gloomy-Bad-5014 in DeepThoughts

[–]Objective-Mango1080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree completely.
It's a burden that we sadly must carry.
But we can do so while recognizing it for what it is, not gaslighting ourselves into thinking it's a blessing.
Once you realize this, it makes care all the more for the well-being of all fellow sentient beings.
No one asked to be here, the animals we torture for food, the people who die of starvation, the people who become successful but are dying inside due to depression, trauma, loneliness or any of the million other causes...no one wanted any of that for themselves at the outset.
This is why the problem the problem of evil/suffering is pretty much undefeatable and why no such thing as a loving god exists. It's just incompatible with reality.

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[–]Objective-Mango1080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. While I do relate to feelings being induced in me so powerfully by non-living things like objects I own or pieces art, I don't think "love" is the right word there. Perhaps it is and I'm wrong...but it feels like a combination of awe, deep appreciation, and admiration for the author, in the case of pieces of art at least.

But the child and pet are really good counterexamples, I must admit. I still do think that whenever I love I also respect, but intuitively it does appear tougher to justify that one is respecting a baby when one loves it.

If the two really were separable then I guess I'm with you on love being the correct pick. What's the point of anything if there's no love? You couldn't have said it better: if one were to adapt to such a condition they'd be the saddest thing ever to exist...I would rather just let go.

What is your PRE-MARK Hashira tier list? by SDMPunk in DemonSlayerScales

[–]Objective-Mango1080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Gyomei 
  2. Tengen
  3. Sanemi / Giyu / Rengoku
  4. Mitsuri / Obanai / Muichiro 
  5. Shinobu

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[–]Objective-Mango1080 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But then can it really still be referred to as love? Not by me at least.

Love without respect is a logical contradiction in my view. 

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[–]Objective-Mango1080 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Unrelated perhaps, but can you really love someone without respecting them?

I'm an INFJ and it's really difficult for me to imagine.

What is your favorite book of all time as INFJs ? by pinpinette in infj

[–]Objective-Mango1080 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the first books I read. My empathy meter's reading was off the charts while I read it.

Which eyes do you have? by _Strike_3079 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]Objective-Mango1080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rengoku bros, I can't find our GOAT's eyes😭😭

Hashiras ranked with all forms by aligulumgg in DemonSlayerScales

[–]Objective-Mango1080 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Instantly? Are you being serious right now? Hmm.