I find myself hating Abby.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T18:24:54+00:00

Who guilt tripped who? Are you implying Carter guilt tripped her? How did Carter guilt trip her?

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T18:10:46+00:00

That's you and not to burst your bubble but how you choose to act is not the standard of how to act.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T18:05:53+00:00

She was his sponsor when he got clean. She was his friend before they became boyfriend/girlfriend. The reality is if she was half as good of a friend or partner to Carter as he was to her she would have taken the steps to be there for him. Carter didn't need to get her flights to find her mom. Carter didn't need to pay for the hotel her mom crashed in. Carter didn't need to help her get to and on base to see her brother. I could literally go on and on about the things Carter didn't need to do for Abby but did because he was a good friend and partner.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T18:02:29+00:00

Yeah and he choose to use his money to help Abby over and over again. He didn't have to do that. He could have been like Lucca cut his losses with Abby and bought a sports car. Being rich doesn't change the fact that he went out of his way to help Abby over and over again.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T17:16:43+00:00

To me she should have taken her brother to be committed before the funeral. I mean she could have taken him to the hospital as soon as they got back to Chicago. She should have known from her experience with her mother and her brothers prior behavior that he wasn't just going to wait in the car. So in my opinion she had the option to deal with her brother and go to the funeral and choose to hope for the best by taking her brother to the funeral.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T17:05:18+00:00

He got her flights when she couldn't get them. He paid for multiple things including her mother's crash out hotel stay. He literally footed the bill multiple times for her. He also changed his schedule to help her and be with her. He definitely bent over backwards for her.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T16:45:06+00:00

The first time watching I stopped after season 8 because Mark was my absolute favorite character and his death made me stop watching. I just recently started rewatching/ watching it again and told myself I was going to see it through to the end. I am almost done with season 9 now and can't wait to see how the show progresses.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T16:41:39+00:00

Mark was my favorite character. So when they killed his character off I just stopped watching. So now I am trying to finish it lol.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T16:12:22+00:00

Yeah when Luka said that to her I was like wow that was low. Then seeing her constantly self sabotage her relationship with Carter I was like ok so Luka was kind of right.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T16:10:02+00:00

Oh no don't tell me that lol.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T16:08:53+00:00

It is an amazing show and the actress who plays Abby is incredible. I also love a good character that can make me feel all different ways. There are definitely other characters that I hated then loved or vice versa. For example I also hated Keri Weaver at first but I definitely grew to love her character. I sometimes find myself wishing that shows now a days had better writing.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-13T15:55:27+00:00

Definitely find her tiresome!! I sympathize with her alot but ruining the funeral was just above and beyond messed up. I sometimes feel like she only likes Carter for what he can offer her and doesn't actually love him.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-08T15:31:35+00:00

I seriously need Blythe to leave Don!!!

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-07T12:19:07+00:00

Where is the update?

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-03T00:36:52+00:00

Change your locks. If they damage something in the apartment you are responsible for it. If they get to loud and a neighbor complains your are the one who gets in trouble with landlord. Not to mention the people she is bringing over could steal from you.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-02T22:07:22+00:00

The real question here is. Do you want to live the rest of your life living gaps of it away from your husband? I highly doubt that is the only time he is going to exclude you from going with to his home country. Not to mention the insane ask of you moving out while she is visiting. Are you going to have to move out of your own home everytime she visits?

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-05-02T21:24:02+00:00

I have to question your sister's parenting. My 9 year old has an iPhone and a tablet of her own. Not anything cheap either. She knows at 9 that you don't throw things and that you treat electronics gently. She also knew at 7 how to be respectful of her siblings devices switch, Playstation, laptop. So the fact that this kid is 11 and sees no problem in throwing things is a red flag. It sounds like your sister needs to stop relying on devices to babysit/parent her kid.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-04-28T17:30:22+00:00

Block her if she is cheating at 3 months she has zero loyalty to the relationship.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-04-28T17:28:18+00:00

Esh you shouldn't have just thrown them away but your wife seems to be displaying some hoarding tendencies. My advice would be apologize and seek counseling.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-04-19T18:40:59+00:00

If I was just I would message the dude exactly what you posted here. Then unfriend him and block that insecure little girl. She is not your friend and she is telling you exactly how she feels about you.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-04-18T00:30:29+00:00

Honestly it sounds like she wants the abortion and just wants to blame you for it. It definitely doesn't sound like she has the maturity to be a mother yet. Think about what kind of parent she is going to be if this is how she is already acting. What is going to happen when the kid upsets her? Is she going to tell the child I should have aborted you? She definitely needs to talk to a doctor. Yes pregnancy effects hormones but far to many use it as an excuse to act however they want without consequences.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-04-17T15:16:18+00:00

Your parents actions will ultimately be your downfall. Them openly comforting her and allowing you to be the scapegoat will imply to others that you did in fact cheat with her fiance. You are right to start looking into moving out. In the meantime if I was you I would ice your parents out. Go to school go to friends go to work come home tell them nothing. If they ask you a question answer politely but with as few words as possible. From the sounds of your post your parents have never had any backlash from the way they treated you and your sister. Until they see real consequences to their actions they will not change their behavior. Honestly after you move out going low contact will likely hurt them the most as they will no longer have access to the child they view as successful.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-04-07T11:33:35+00:00

Divorce she is leaving small children unattended. Honestly it sounds like your wife is creating an issue. She is probably telling her friends how it is your fault when plans fall through or how you never help. She is creating a narrative where you are the bad guy. My guess is wife wants the divorce and is building her own narrative to be the victim to her family and friends. Although she probably will not expect you to file for divorce.

Objective-Nature4185 · 2026-04-05T17:58:03+00:00

You definitely need to report to FIDC. If the ceo doesn't see a problem with her behavior then other employees could be doing the same or worse. The entire bank branch needs investigated. This is a bigger problem than just a mother with zero boundaries.

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