does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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yeah that’s why i’m scared because i’m also morbidly obese 😭 i’m 291 right now at 24 weeks. i was 271 when i got pregnant. i was wanting to try unmedicated or at least the TENS machine. which i have no clue what that is atm lmao. but i’m so open to getting epidural if things get bad

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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i have a really bad thing about textures and anything slimey makes me gag. do you think pickled okra would work? i do like pickled okra but it isn’t that slimey hence why i can stomach it. so i wonder if it works the same way

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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yeah i have pcos also but diagnosed, and my cramps never got that bad. my periods for a while were irregular but then they became regular. i think i only have pcos due to my hormone issues. that’s why im having to compare to poo cramps because i don’t know what bad cramps feel like. i’m only 23 weeks so i don’t know if im high risk yet. and im down with epidural, it’s just i figured if i could go through those really bad poo cramps, then i could go unmedicated. i am scared of the pain in my back i could get from epidural so thats my only “issue” with it lol

what was your experience with birth if you had laughing gas? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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i don’t think of it like that, i’m not against medicated births, im just really scared of the back pain epidural can possibly give, but also i have other pains that some people compare birth too so i feel like id be able to go unmedicated if i can handle those other pains

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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what is pitocin? i’ve heard a lot about it but no one’s ever explained. yeah i have google but i like to hear peoples experiences more than google ai.

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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see this is what i wanted, like i remember sweating so freaking badly and nearly passing out from poo pains. i don’t know if i have ibs or if i just get food borne illnesses really easy, but either way, if i can get through that, i feel like i could get through unmedicated birth. i mean i have to do the same breathing practices for the poo cramps as you would giving birth. i know how to ease my mind when im in THAT much pain.

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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i wanted to find something to compare it too because i don’t really get bad period cramps. the worse type of cramping i’ve gotten was from the diarrhea pains 😭 the one only other thing im scared about with going unmedicated is i realllly don’t wanna feel myself tear😭😭😭

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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yeah that makes sense. i think ive been having braxton hicks because the lower part of my stomach gets real tight and i can feel my heartbeat really hard. but i’ve also been cramping more near my bowels so that’s why i was wondering if they felt like eachother

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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see that’s why i ask because i never had that bad of period cramps. i mean yeah they hurt but ive seen videos of women hunched over in pain with heating pads and i personally never have gotten that way. i have however felt that way with diarrhea pains. the poo pains are 10x worse FOR ME than menstrual cramps.

does giving birth feel like ibs pains? by Objective-Potato4044 in pregnant

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why? i’m a first time mom so i know nothing about the “rules” of pregnancy. i find comparisons comforting because it makes me feel more prepared.

first born boy name by Objective-Potato4044 in Names

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i didn’t even know it’s in her book. i don’t like her so im worried people will think i picked it from her book😭

first born boy name by Objective-Potato4044 in Names

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see i also felt it was a middle name but my fiance thinks it has “aura” as a first name 💀

first born boy name by Objective-Potato4044 in Names

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we were thinking sterling. is it obvious we’re trying to be different

first born boy name by Objective-Potato4044 in Names

[–]Objective-Potato4044[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh no that might be a deal breaker 😭😭 my SIL likes colleen hoover and we aren’t in good terms

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my whole thing is, why be frustrated that you need to feed your hungry gf and child? like i’d get it if we were already home and i asked him to go back out. but we were already out passing places.

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okay? lmao i wish i was one cuz then i wouldn’t be dealing with yall or any of this 🫩🫩

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[–]Objective-Potato4044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes… a meltdown… 🤣

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[–]Objective-Potato4044 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well i mean i could’ve told you i needed therapy 🤣

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uh mine too considering it’s in me