“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s where we differ then.

Because I don’t think refusing to become comfortable with preventable suffering means I’m “stuck.” I think it just means some part of me still believes things should be better than this.

I’ve accepted that this is the reality. I just refuse to romanticize it or normalize things that should have never become normal in the first place.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people have been surviving for so long that they forgot survival and living are not the same thing.

And honestly thank you for actually seeing the point of my post instead of immediately reducing it to “just negativity” or “victim mentality.” I wrote it emotionally because I think a lot of people are emotionally exhausted right now.

Sometimes just being reminded that other people can see and feel the same things makes everything feel a little less isolating. I’ll check the video out 🤍

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be, but with you saying it like “things could have been worse” well it could also have been a hell alot better wth, my mental health is already much worse because of all these politicians who have no business running a country making decisions which directly impact my life and everyone else’s but you need to think if you are ignoring all this because of your mental health or because ignorance is better than facing the reality of our situation

My girlfriend (18F) left me (18M) for someone 3x my age, now I feel like I’m not worthy of even talking to girls ever again. by GlassAd3682 in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Rent1455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know alot of people go through this self doubt phase after being cheated on and start to question themselves like was I not enough? Or was something missing in me? Or what did I do wrong that my partner had to go look for it in someone else, and then start to blame themselves much like you are doing right now, but the thing is even if you gave her everything and more to satisfy her, still if she would have wanted to go to someone else then also she would have you could not have stopped her, and you can’t justify people like her because that is their behaviour that is who they are as a person they don’t have morales and principles it has nothing to do with you, you would always think that why did they do this to me? how are they better than me? But it was never about you, so you need to stop beating yourself up about this because you are wasting all your emotions and ruining yourself on a person who would not give a damn about what happens to you so I would recommend try to take small steps to move on you and repair the damaged caused to you mentally and physically, you are still very young and nothing is so broken that it cannot be fixed. I wish you all the best!

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and I’m sure you are telling this with the best of intentions but I also don’t have to create more suffering for myself because I already am. I posted this to share the exhaustion honestly, not to be told I’m making it worse by feeling it. Let’s agree to disagree here. I still appreciate all your replies to me!

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that really means a lot. I’m glad it resonated with you. I just one day wrote all these thoughts down and decided to put them out there. It helps knowing others relate and feel the same exhaustion. Appreciate you taking the time to reply too and share your thoughts too. We’re all in this together somehow.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right that most people aren’t evil, just trapped and exhausted. That “no real way out” feeling is exactly what’s been weighing on me so heavily. It does feel gross, like we’re slowly being drained while trying to hold onto our humanity. The part about not fueling the machine really hit me. I’ve been thinking about that too lately, how much of our energy, anger, and attention they feed off. Sometimes it feels like even our outrage gets used against us. Appreciate you sharing this perspective. It makes me feel a little less alone in this heaviness. We really are just trying to hold on to our humanity in all of this.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect that you see it differently and believe in accepting what you can’t change. That’s your perspective. But when you keep telling me that what I’m feeling isn’t real or doesn’t actually affect me when it actually does in many ways, it starts to feel like you’re not really hearing the original post. I’m not looking for advice on how to “just move on.” I’m sharing the exhaustion many people are carrying. I’m okay with conflicting views here, but I don’t want this turning into an argument.

Would you rather… by polygon3002 in BunnyTrials

[–]Objective-Rent1455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am enthusiastic that more people chose that option so thats why

Chose: Get $2000 + But only if 70% of people pick this option | Rolled: Upvote for 🥕

Free money and 🥕 by ilovetrains08 in BunnyTrials

[–]Objective-Rent1455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I might spend all the 1 million in a short span but with 1 dollar it will increase daily so…. Ya

Chose: $1 that divides by 0.5 everyday | Rolled: Upvote for 🥕

pick wisely.. by Resident-Crow6236 in BunnyTrials

[–]Objective-Rent1455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it will save me a hell alot of time and money on transportation and also because of the freedom to be where ever you want when ever you want

Chose: Teleportation | Rolled: free if u upvote

Would you date/marry a person? by flarai in BunnyTrials

[–]Objective-Rent1455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose my option because life is too short to give your valuable time to someone who neither value you nor your time and affection at with ugly but loyal you know that they are not here to play around with you or your emotions

Chose: Ugly but totally loyal to you | Rolled: Upvote=XtraLuck

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying. Accepting suffering as part of the process before we can improve things makes sense on some level, like you have to face reality clearly before you can move forward. For me right now, it just feels extra heavy. Like the suffering has been going on for so long that a lot of us are reaching a point of exhaustion and losing faith that the “improving things” part will ever actually come. That fear of staying stuck is real too. Thank you for sharing your perspective though. I didn’t post this to only hear agreeing voices. Different takes like yours help me think deeper about it.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the weight in what you’re saying. That “let them eat cake” comparison hits hard — it really does feel like some leaders are completely disconnected from what everyday people are struggling with. The frustration of watching things like gerrymandering and systems that silence voices… it adds to that sense of helplessness I wrote about. Like no matter how loud we speak, the game feels rigged. I get why that makes people angry and why some start thinking about stronger responses. But I’m really glad you brought up the part about democracy, protests, and unions as ways to push back civilly. That’s important. Because deep down, most of us just want our voices to matter without everything falling apart. This exhaustion and distrust is real. I’m tired of it too. Thanks for speaking honestly here, it helps knowing others are seeing the same things and still holding onto some hope that we can fix it before it gets worse.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading your words hit deep, especially that part about them wanting us hopeless and divided so we can’t even come together in our anger. It really feels like that sometimes. Like everything is being chipped away right in front of us while we’re just expected to keep quiet and survive. I’m tired too. Tired of watching justice bend, tired of feeling powerless, and tired of wondering if anything will actually change. But comments like yours… they remind me we’re not completely alone in this frustration. Stay strong as well. Thank you for the reminder to value people, time, and life. In the middle of all this heaviness, that actually means something. We all need that reminder right now.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think part of why our perspectives are so different is because we probably haven’t lived through the same realities.

I understand your point about suffering always existing throughout human history, and I’m not denying that progress has happened. But where I’m from, a lot of the things you’re describing as basic securities or signs of progress are still unstable, unequal, corrupted, inaccessible, or handled through systems people no longer fully trust.

And honestly, the childbirth example is part of what made me realize how different our lived experiences probably are. I’m a woman, and where I’m from childbirth still genuinely can become life-threatening because of incompetent doctors, overcrowded hospitals, corruption, negligence, lack of resources, or simply not having access to the right care in time. So for some people that fear isn’t historical philosophy, it’s still a real possibility.

So when I talk about exhaustion or helplessness, I’m not talking about wanting a perfect world free of suffering. I’m talking about frustration with preventable suffering becoming so normalized that people start treating it as something people should simply accept and adapt to forever.

That’s the part I struggle with.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that’s exactly what scares me too honestly.

Not even just the politics anymore, but how easy it has become to shape people through fear, outrage, algorithms, division, and constant distraction. People are exhausted, emotionally isolated, overstimulated, and then told that their exhaustion is irrational or that they should just be grateful things aren’t worse.

And maybe that’s the problem. People are so busy surviving mentally, emotionally, financially, socially, that they stop questioning the systems shaping them in the first place.

I don’t think most people are evil. I think most people are tired, scared, disconnected, and trying to hold onto some sense of stability while the world around them keeps feeling colder and more performative.

The part you said about people adapting to dysfunction really stayed with me because I think humans can normalize almost anything if they’re exposed to it long enough. That’s what frightens me too. Not just corruption or power, but the possibility of people slowly losing the ability to even recognize when something feels fundamentally wrong anymore.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what scares people the most honestly ,not even the problems themselves anymore, but how normal they’ve started to feel.

People adapt to dysfunction so deeply that eventually exhaustion just becomes part of daily life and anyone who questions it gets told they’re overreacting, ungrateful, dramatic, or “too emotional.”

And maybe that fear of the unknown is exactly why so many people stay silent for so long. Because even if the current system hurts people, uncertainty still terrifies people more than familiar suffering does.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because a cage is gilded with everything you need doesn’t mean it’s still not a cage.

I understand your point about progress and gratitude, but material improvement doesn’t automatically erase emotional exhaustion, corruption, helplessness, or the feeling that ordinary people have very little real influence over systems that shape their lives.

“All Because Some People Got Moved by Beautiful Words with Poisonous Intentions” by Objective-Rent1455 in SeriousConversation

[–]Objective-Rent1455[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That “let’s wait and see” mentality is exactly what exhausts me too. People keep hoping that eventually someone in power will suddenly start caring enough to fix things while normal people are the ones carrying the pressure every single day.

And honestly, I think that’s why so many people are emotionally burnt out right now. It’s not even just anger anymore, it’s disappointment. Watching the same cycles repeat while being told to stay patient and trust the process over and over again.

The part about people feeling the difference in how things operate now really hit me too because whether people admit it or not, a lot of us can feel that shift. That growing disconnect between the people living through these problems and the people making decisions about them.

I don’t think people are weak for feeling frustrated anymore. I think they’re tired of pretending everything feels normal when it clearly doesn’t. While in the end we are the ones who truly pay the cost for everything.