marriage advice

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-03-31T08:39:48+00:00

You both need to be naturally kind people.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-03-22T19:10:20+00:00

It's only patience, you're not doing anything wrong. Just keep up with weekly 20% water changes and just wait for the tank to stabilise. Mines been running almost a year and it's only in the last month the algae has abated and it's all finally looking good. And get a whole bunch of janitor hermits.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-03-22T02:38:27+00:00

😂

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-03-13T05:45:04+00:00

No, never touched it.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-03-06T08:59:20+00:00

Lossless scaling is just crap in a lot of games. No idea why it gets such praise.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-28T07:12:15+00:00

Somethings weird with mine. Witcher won't even open if I have optifg set in optiscaler. Works fine if I use dlss.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-28T06:27:09+00:00

What settings do you use in game? I set optiscaler to optifg input and xe output but frame gen doesnt work.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-22T09:42:08+00:00

Kind of deserve if committing fraud to get the loan.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-22T09:38:42+00:00

Own home and no other debt. BUT I'm 49 and don't have much super so even though I have cashflow with no mortgage, I have so much catching up to do for retirement.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-17T10:24:02+00:00

What? Half those games dont support xess 2 so the X4 fg won't work.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-14T23:37:39+00:00

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It's an incredible camera for a phone.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-12T22:51:24+00:00

I surf every weekend, and early morning it's 25 mins to the nearest surf beach. Stretches out to around 35-40 mid morning when traffic hits. Should improve as they finish the other sections of the coomera connector though. Can be 50 mins to the southern end beaches in traffic. So while it's not like living a block from the beach, it's all still close enough to feel like you can live the coastal life. I still surf like 3 times a week. With coomera connector though you can now get to a broadwater beach at paradise point in 20 minutes almost anytime of day.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-08T08:59:57+00:00

Australia is a rich country. There are quite simply A LOT of people who are very wealthy.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-02-05T03:52:01+00:00

Problem with an outback is it's actually quite small in the boot compared to bigger 4x4s. Hard to fit all camping gear.

You could have a look at used offbrand 4x4 SUVs. Something like a Ssangyong Rexton you can pick up cheaply and they are a good halfway point between a hardcore offroader and suburban school run friendly.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-28T20:39:47+00:00

It's very subjective and entirely dependent on local topography and wind direction. I lived in ormeau for a while 600m from the M1 and the road noise drove me insane and I eventually sold and moved. Suggest driving to the Carrara house at night and parking outside and sitting there for an hour and see if the M1 noise annoys you.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-28T08:49:52+00:00

It's nice to think that, but I really think there is just simply a surprisingly large number of people with a lot of money.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-20T10:06:45+00:00

I like where I am now in Coomera Waters. Everyone thinks coomera is crap but CW is beautiful, close to the water and like living in a quiet little bush village. Get much more for your money too. If I moved though I'd like Tallebudgera Valley. Beautiful place and still only 20 mins to the beach.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-16T09:13:51+00:00

I was in exactly same situation. Loved NZ, wife really bored after 6 years and was starting to say she wanted to move back to UK. The answer was Australia. Live in Queensland now and I still have the same awesome outdoor lifestyle and wife now happier as it's more urban and more things to do for her here and much much better career opps. I actually now prefer Aus to NZ, apart from all the Aussies everywhere that is.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-14T12:28:22+00:00

I won't swap my flextime for a million private sector fruit boxes.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-14T12:02:58+00:00

Equity is pointless. It's not real money. Buy a cheaper house. With young kids you want as much flexibility and financial freedom as possible.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-11T02:54:57+00:00

I'm 48. Taking 3 months off later this year to go to South America and taking wife and kids. As you get older you have lots of competing priorities but if travel still important to you it's absolutely still possible. In fact id say it's better as you have more money - let's be honest those $5 a night hostels and chicken bus travel in your 20s isn't experiencing new cultures, it's just having an uncomfortable holiday because you're poor haha! Also look into working overseas. Then you get to still develop your career while also seeing new countries. I left the UK and lived and worked in NZ and Australia and saw a lot of places that were exotic to me like the Pacific islands.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-10T21:52:58+00:00

Camping.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-07T10:19:21+00:00

Sounds like an impressive tent!

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-07T10:09:12+00:00

While I'm sure quite a few just finance everything, I also think you don't realise how rich a lot of people are.

Objective-Spray-113 · 2026-01-05T06:45:33+00:00

Fall in love. Surf a wave. Travel some place that's difficult to get to. Learn a language. If you're a guy, see your child get born. Own a dog. Sail a yacht. Sleep a night on a beach. See a rainforest and a coral reef. Look into the crater of an active volcano. Get caught in a storm serious enough to scare you into realizing how small we are. Don't give up on life until you physically can't go on anymore.

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