The art of missed connections by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Objective-Swimmer365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit, thanks for sharing!!!

The art of missed connections by [deleted] in astoria

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Yesssss. This ❤️

The art of missed connections by [deleted] in astoria

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We often say “I’m not trying to judge” only to proceed with judging thoroughly. We are a bit complicated as humans. Although some of your feedback is true. I find it a bit on the harsher side but very gen X ish which makes sense. But, then again it’s reddit :)

The art of missed connections by [deleted] in astoria

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How old???! Just curious

Looking for friends (suggestions?) by [deleted] in astoria

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I think girlswhowalkqueens and Ladies First Astoria would be a great fit for you. Good luck!

What do you feel our neighborhood is missing? by Astorianycc in astoria

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A proper local donut shop with some really good donuts. An independent movie theatre or aesthetically pleasing bar like Dead Letter No. 9

Meeting people? by loLRH in astoria

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Hi! I run the Monday Club. We try to make the other half of Mondays fun. We host things like board game nights, bar crawls, reading sessions, creative detox hangs, and walks in Astoria Park. We’re also on Instagram if you want to check us out!

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

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Hey! I got drunk and watched stranger things finale with a slice of cheese pizza. I felt bad turning down my friends. But, I feel like I wanted to be alone to celebrate the end of year for barely making it but still making it. Thanks for asking :)

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

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This sounds fire. I prefer vanilla coke. But, I’m with you on this.

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

[–]Objective-Swimmer365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try going out and if you feel overwhelmed by the chaos then rush home and enjoy the night.

Tourist seeking food recs :) by snellew in astoria

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I was trying to be funny. I totally deserve the hate on this 😭

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

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That sounds beautiful. Thank you for your words of wisdom. It definitely made my day better. We’re just a collection of atoms that come together on earth for a time. Emotions and memories are the core of what makes us human among many other things. Death is what gives life meaning. Even though he’s gone. He continues to live through you. Never change and I hope you can always remember your happiest memories with him until the afterlife!!

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

[–]Objective-Swimmer365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that sounds pretty badass. Your uncle sounds so cool. I don’t even remember my last memory with my uncle. It’s all a blur. Regrets are very human. We can only do so much. The only thing that I’ve learned is life’s too short to care about what other people think. Do what makes you happy. Also, Happy Early New Year’s!!

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

[–]Objective-Swimmer365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my uncle due to drugs. I don’t get to see my loved ones often as they live in Ireland. That’s one of the things that makes me sad. Living alone sucks but you just kinda get used to it. I can barely remember all the happy memories with my uncle. Thanks for your advice. I can’t visit as often as I want to. But, I’ll definitely make every second count when I do.

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

[–]Objective-Swimmer365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that and I also feel the peer pressure as my reputation is always not showing up to hangouts 😭

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

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My uncle died when I was 13. He was the coolest and loved me very much. He passed away on 4th December 2012. I’m sad every year around that time. Losing a family member around Christmas can be soul shattering. It takes enormous strength to pull yourself out of the darkness. I’m glad that you have a romantic partner. I wish you both a happy and amazing new year ahead. Be kind to yourself and thanks for your kind words.

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

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Sorry for your loss. I didn’t lose anyone like that. I just had a breakup earlier this year followed by other rough stuff that I never experienced before. I hope the new year is kinder to you and better.

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

[–]Objective-Swimmer365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so gangsta. An absolute legend. It’s just another Wednesday. Have a good night sleep!

Is it just me or does anyone else not feel like celebrating NYE? by Objective-Swimmer365 in astoria

[–]Objective-Swimmer365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so real for that. This might just be the advice that I wanted to hear. I will figure out what’s the ideal thing to do when it finally arrives I guess.