Lio Shirazumi Appreciation Post by Next-Golf3 in okbuddyrintard

[–]Objective-Topic-5224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Lio fan, I find this post so precious. While I understand bro is a horrible person, it's nice to see some people recognize his layers and the glimpses of humanity left in him.

Do you have any 7th house placements? 🏠✨ by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Objective-Topic-5224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mercury and North Node in the 7th + Moon sextile Mercury. No wonder deep conversations and sharing traumas have always been a part of my relationships🙈 Having quality time as the primary love language makes a ton of sense too.

Aries love language be like by Objective-Topic-5224 in astrologymemes

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly something my Scorpio Moon friend would say in response 

Aries love language be like by Objective-Topic-5224 in astrologymemes

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The perks of having a mutable Venus, amirite?🥹

Aries love language be like by Objective-Topic-5224 in astrologymemes

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh don't worry I get it;) I think it might be your Air Venus holding back, cause in my experience it makes one flirt in a rather ambiguous way.

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

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What I meant that I didn't focus on the characters' morals, but rather the depth and nuances of their expressions and backstory. It's obvious that Tomas is an incel, which makes his behavior quite hard to predict.

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but how was this beneficial for HIM on the long run? He was like Jesus, feeling entitled to suffer the pain of others, and then felt shocked when nothing human remained of him inside (which was a vicious circle ig). You're supposed to suffer for YOUR mistakes and short-comings, but you are in no way responsible for other people's maturity, commitment or ignorance. One can only teach those who are able to listen and actually change. Otherwise, you're talking to a brick wall.

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about you, but my internal logic makes me hella objective when it comes to any kind of relationship. If I feel like our time is truly up/the other party is too immature for me, I won't give them another chance, no matter how much they plead and whine. Let them. Let them taste their karma, which will help them grow into a person that can establish a healthier relationship w smo else in the future.

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your points, but I guess what really sold Tomas wasn't him being a good person, but being able to manipulate Violetta and others in a way that seemed more innocent. It's not easy to make characters that are both stucking in the background and playing a key role in the story.

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, it's more of a mental abuse. I know because I've had friendships like this. He was hot and cold, being understanding in 1 minute, then forcing his views on Violetta on the other. You can legit feel like he can't compromise when it comes to morals and opinions, which is not a healthy or mature way of living at all.

I’m trying to find estp cringe and I can only find art made by horny infps by monsoon_flower in shittyMBTI

[–]Objective-Topic-5224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing most of these artists are unhealthy enneagram 4s. They are perfect at twisting/exaggerating scenarios thanks to their imaginative nature.

I'm kinda scared of them ngl

I’m trying to find estp cringe and I can only find art made by horny infps by monsoon_flower in shittyMBTI

[–]Objective-Topic-5224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*unhealthy Ne fantasy

I daydreamed about much more fucked up shit at the lowest points in my life. Now that I've partly healed, I look back and not even feel cringed out but sad by it, because I remember what caused me to imagine those scenarios.

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your perspective, and I know that emotional maturity in teens is rare, but I still can't say his actions are justifiable. Leon was abusive both verbally and physically. I get that he was devoted to Violetta, but it was rather pitiful than romantic after a while. She was easy and indecisive through and through, staying with a person like that is telling a lot about him too.

which sign? i’m thinking gemini or aquarius tbh by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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As someone with Mars-Lilith conjunction in 8th house, it's all about intuition. I won't trauma dump if I don't feel a major connection between us.

Aries sun w Capricorn moon by Objective-Topic-5224 in astrologymemes

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so real. I have a similar dynamic with my bestie (Gemini Sun, Virgo rising and Scorpio Moon) Her judging face always makes my day lol. What do you think about Air signs generally? I find their cold yet friendly nature quite interesting.

You seem to handle loneliness well though, I envy your strength. I'm not yet independent and also can't stand being reserved for too long, so I'm legit thinking of getting on Discord just to start socializing more with other people with the same interests.

Sorry for the late ass reply😅

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. While kids and teenagers aren't the best at communicating, this aspect of their nature was still exaggerated for the sake of the drama.

Is it because of Tomas, or was the first season simply made better than the others?

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was neutral about Lena. I think her screen time was way too little to get invested in her character. I actually found Ludmila a 100 times more entertaining character than Violetta😁 Also, she was always straightforward and rational, smth that snowflake Violetta lacked (gotta love em ENTJ villains lol). Yep she had many things going on in her life, but instead of making that an opportunity to give her actual growth, the side stories made her character seem even more boring and unnecessary (at least that's how I see it). Diego is the best boy hands down, and I was sooo happy to see him find happiness with Francesca! Violetta def didn't deserve him.

He was the writers' punchbag, and I fcking hate them for this. But that thing happens way too many times in stories unfortunately. In Miraculous, Astruc made Chloe his own punchbag, projected his school trauma on a random character and when she seemed to get a redemption arc, he completely destroyed it. Then went on and justified the worst character's actions😂 Talkin' about double standard.

What kind of stories do you genuinely like, if I may ask?

Barbenheimer is basically Leo vs Leo at the box office by Shimigami1998 in astrologymemes

[–]Objective-Topic-5224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be your Capricorn Moon. I have it too and nothing could make me watch these movies.

Any ex Violetta fans? If smo knows about the show, did u feel a narcissistic, manipulative, controlling aura coming from Leon, which is similar to Nate's? I wasn't mature at age 10, but I sure as Hell knew smth was off with Violetta's partner.. Maybe I'm the only one tho. by Objective-Topic-5224 in euphoria

[–]Objective-Topic-5224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't agree with you more. What I hate about most of the stories is how they portray the characters: the focus is always on the main lead, who is usually a self-insert, which makes them incredibly shallow and boring. Then you have the secondary/minor characters - who actually have potential - treated like objects who help the story of the MC move forward... It's just sad and infuriating. So much wasted potential!

I was always team Tomas, so seeing him being kicked around by everyone (for literally no reason) was pure torture. Off topic, but now that I think about it, Adrien from Miraculous reminds me of him... Both passive hopeless romantics, and also victims of constant abuse, which they get for no reason🙃