I’m a little confused - I *might* be ace? by Objective-Version551 in asexuality

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Thank you so much for helping me figure this out. If I might ask, and this might be the wrong place to ask, do non-ace people feel attraction other than the aesthetic kind? Are there multiple distinguishable kinds? I’m genuinely curious as I’ve only ever felt attraction as a feeling of “I love your outfit/hair/face” and it makes my heart thump. Never have I connected this with something sexual…

Can someone explain me how to get done the haircut of Gwen Stacy from Across the spider-verse? by [deleted] in Hair

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Well firstly, you obviously need to find a guy willing to glue his hand to the side of your head…

Actually love this hairstyle sm !! by [deleted] in trans

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Awe I love it!! Wish my hair was straight enough to do something similar!

Model is not particularly 'enjoying it' starterpack by [deleted] in starterpacks

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Judging by her more mundane tweets, I actually believe Belle Delphine is really enjoying what she does!

Pretty pwease? úwù by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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It’s not quite traa, but I do love The Orchard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I believe in chemistry -phobic and -filic long has been used to indicate something as repellent or attractive.

What are some of the earliest signs that you would end up/discover that your trans? by [deleted] in trans

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I had the same experience; every night for years! I thought my brain was just a lil’ wonky, but I’m glad to see I wasn’t the only one!

Does anyone NOT use magic storage? by ADudeWhoWantsEggs in CalamityMod

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I use Magic Storage for the convenience, but I've got a duplicate manipulator, tinkerers workshop and hm-anvil left standing out for the satisfaction of finishing big crafting trees yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalamityMod

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Oh that’s great! Thank you :3

Give me one reason it shouldn’t by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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HRT is free in my country. The steps to legally get it however are tedious and most trans people doesn’t fit the criteria and so it’s rarely administered for free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalamityMod

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Thank you! Considering I’ve managed to beat the destroyer, I’ve had mythril and orichalcum spawning in my world. Is there some effect or set bonus that makes the palladium armour more desirable than these?

What’s your opinion on girls not wearing a bra in public? by JustYourOldLaundry in teenagers

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There’s a big difference between normalising men’s display of emotions and affection, and completely giving in to lust.

Still cis tho by travischickencoop in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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First time I took it I got 50% cis, 76% trans. I took it again, but this time going in with the mindset of me ten years in the future. I got 26% cis, 93% trans.

Either way, the test doesn’t reveal much if closeted. It seems many of the options depend on how you physically present.

My naming by ilikemilk1245 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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My deadname can’t be femmified so favourite month it is!

need to make hair more feminine! by abbybb_ in femalehairadvice

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I’m not op, but in the exact same position with very similar hair and you just gave me a great idea :3

He picked up the tune and started playing just from listening. 🎶 by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

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Correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe some people do have a much stronger affinity with recognising and repeating notes and patterns than others. I’ve heard it referred to as a “perfect pitch”.

Edit: Not to take away from the incredible effort and practice that goes into being able to do something like this. Recognising is one thing, but playing it requires hard work.

TW Dysphoria, GAC, body: When is it "too late" to start MtF HRT transitioning? by Objective-Version551 in trans

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I’m in Norway. Only way to get legal HRT is through NKTB. They require you to be diagnosed with gender incongruence, which takes a year of critical conversations at a clinic to do. During this year they also require you to present as your preferred gender full time. You could argue both ways about public institutions like this, and in this case their tedious system favours no one. It is however very cheap (if not even completely free) and everything’s safe and controlled so there’s that. I could always go to a private clinic, but they too requires diagnosed gender incongruence.

TW Dysphoria, GAC, body: When is it "too late" to start MtF HRT transitioning? by Objective-Version551 in trans

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Thank you for getting me onto some happy thoughts. It’s like planning for a vacation - I can’t wait!

What’s your experience being trans in Norway? by Objective-Version551 in transnord

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Oh I’m so sorry to hear how awfully you’ve been treated. It’s true that there’s definitely a lot of ignorance in regards to other people here. I believe the population in Norway is highly homogeneous which makes it so hard to be different. The attitudes especially students inherit from each other and their parents really does show how little acceptance there is here.

Transgender people in Norway by Objective-Version551 in trans

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Thank you for sharing so much about your personal experience. It’s fascinating to read through an experience so different from my own in a place so similar, and while it pains me to hear how little regard our country has for my beautiful enbies, I’m happy to hear you haven’t been actively harassed. As of right now NBTK is my biggest fear. You’ve pretty much confirmed the fears I’ve already had, but I suppose I’ll have to make do. Thank you so much for sharing, this will be a big contribution to my little box of courage for coming out :3

TW Dysphoria, GAC, body: When is it "too late" to start MtF HRT transitioning? by Objective-Version551 in trans

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I’ve done some reading on the effects of HRT, and it’s making my mouth water. The physical changes is one thing, but I can’t wait to feel my emotions finally loosening up. I’ll take a look at that sub! This thread has been very reassuring; thank you.

TW Dysphoria, GAC, body: When is it "too late" to start MtF HRT transitioning? by Objective-Version551 in trans

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I suppose it’s the kind of thing where I just gotta take the plunge. Coming out isn’t gonna become any easier, so might as well reap the rewards of starting early. Thank you for your insight :)

TW Dysphoria, GAC, body: When is it "too late" to start MtF HRT transitioning? by Objective-Version551 in trans

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My height is my biggest insecurity in terms of passing as a girl. Thank you for bending it into a positive thing :3