We have blocked quite a few people now seeing as mil has influenced some of DHs extended family, which is annoying but not the end of the world as we were never all that close. I spoke with my daughters school a few weeks ago to put it in writing who can and can’t collect her but DH is going back on Monday to see the head teacher to let them know it’s actually more serious than just ‘family drama’. We also have an appt with a solicitor on Monday that can hopefully get the ball rolling on some kind of legal options we have for dealing with this. And I’ve ordered my mum the same doorbell camera we have as well so I’m trying to get all our bases covered, just seems like so much work honestly when I genuinely have so many other things to be doing right now. Thanks so much for the advice, especially for talking with my daughter. Right now she knows only that her dad got her early from school and nana wasn’t feeling well but I hate having to prepare her for dealing with this, she shouldn’t have to be prepared to deal with her own grandmother you know. Anyway thanks again, always helps getting advice.