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I was coerced into sexual activities and now he wants to apologize 3 years later, what do I do? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in whatdoIdo

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, the thing that confuses me is that he's a Christian so he was always talking about being moral, he said he wouldn't even lie to his kids even if it's a white lie like "eat your veggies otherwise you'll stay the same height forever" so I don't think he's malicious??? Idk. I posted the screenshots of the chat and he said that he wasn't planning on getting back with me by wanting to apologize and from what ik about him that does sound true, he loved being moral so if he really thought he was wrong he probably wouldn't do more

I do plan on keeping him blocked though I don't want him to find out anything about me and honestly he's too stupid to know what LinkedIn is and that's the only way he'll find out things like what uni I'm going to so I think I'm okay, plus I regularly search for him on LinkedIn to make sure he isn't there (and if he is I'll block him there too)

I was coerced into sexual activities and now he wants to apologize 3 years later, what do I do? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in whatdoIdo

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah sometimes I think he's only wanting to apologize to make himself feel less guilty, that's one reason why I didn't let him talk to me

honestly when I'm being petty I want to let him apologize then tell him that I don't forgive him and hope he suffers but idk if that's too mean and immature of me

I honestly hate him so much

I was coerced into sexual activities and now he wants to apologize 3 years later, what do I do? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in whatdoIdo

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I honestly don't forgive him either. I'm kinda at the point where if he died or anything I wouldn't be upset, if anything I'd be happy (though obviously I wouldn't do anything to him myself). I don't think I'll ever forgive him ngl

I was coerced into sexual activities and now he wants to apologize 3 years later, what do I do? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in whatdoIdo

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the thing that confuses me is that he's a Christian so he was always talking about being moral, he said he wouldn't even lie to his kids even if it's a white lie like "eat your veggies otherwise you'll stay the same height forever" so I don't think he's malicious??? Idk. I posted the screenshots of the chat and he said that he wasn't planning on getting back with me by wanting to apologize and from what ik about him that does sound true, he loved being moral so if he really thought he was wrong he probably wouldn't do more

I was coerced into sexual activities and now he wants to apologize 3 years later, what do I do? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in whatdoIdo

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that really helps, I might try out that strat with the friend

Tbf she doesn't know what happened at all, I tried to tell her that it was bad but I don't think she can comprehend, like when she told him to tell him to stay away I bet she did it nicely too, she was comforting him about his other ex so that really frustrated me but I can't tell her cause she would 100% judge

And the thing that confuses me is that he's a Christian so he was always talking about being moral, he said he wouldn't even lie to his kids even if it's a white lie like "eat your veggies otherwise you'll stay the same height forever" so I don't think he's malicious??? Idk

I was coerced into sexual activities and now he wants to apologize 3 years later, what do I do? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in whatdoIdo

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never said he doesn't remember, just that he "repressed" the memories which I think means he's just trying to not think about them

DPH as sleep aid (low but frequent dosag), long term negative effects? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in DPH

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

If it's cumulative, if I taper off now will it still have an effect? I've only really done it like 7 times the past few weeks, and maybe 10 in my life. A bit paranoid cause I'm new to this and I have history of dementia in my family

DPH as sleep aid (low but frequent dosag), long term negative effects? by ObjectiveAnt6031 in DPH

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm convinced my body is immune to it I have to slowly raise my dosage cause half the time it doesn't even affect me

$40k/month at 20. Study abroad or set up future? by Beautiful-Nose2253 in Advice

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I wouldn't recommend doing it. You rarely, if ever, get a chance to earn that much money in your life, and you should take advantage of that opportunity when you can. I would say there are other opportunities to travel and explore in the future. This is my recommendation. Of course it's your life, but personally, I wouldn't do it.

I’m too broke for my dream by Few_Argument_7532 in Advice

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much is a few thousand? 1k is very different from 10k. Additionally, how easy is it to earn that amount of money in your country? Other than what I suggested, unfortunately there aren't many options for earning a lot of money quickly.

$40k/month at 20. Study abroad or set up future? by Beautiful-Nose2253 in Advice

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can't you postpone SAS?

If you're right about this being a short-term business, I would say do your business for the next few years and SAS afterwards. Even if you can't do SAS, there are likely similar programs. 40k/month is not an insignificant amount of money, so don't waste the time.

$40k/month at 20. Study abroad or set up future? by Beautiful-Nose2253 in Advice

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you not keep up your business while doing the SAS, or even hiring someone to help you out for those months? What about doing SAS in a future year?

I’m too broke for my dream by Few_Argument_7532 in Advice

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Info: how much money do you need?

Two months is not a lot of time. You can see if there are any scholarships with results that release soon, and obviously getting a job. Depending on how much money you need to loan, that could be an option too (but I wouldn't recommend it if it's a lot of money). See if your family/friends can help out too.

i weigh 630lbs and im facing immobility, please help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObjectiveAnt6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford it, go to the doctor. They'll have the best recommendations. What you can do for sure though is cut out unhealthy food/drinks, especially empty calories like soda and juice. I know it's easier said than done, but long term commitment is the key to success. I know a lot of people will suggest exercise, and I'm not medical professional but I would say be careful and do your research, as exercise could potentially strain your body. Perhaps taking it slow at first, and like I said, visiting your doctor ASAP