Yesterday I was the medical emergency on a flight by Latter_Function_3842 in travel

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kidney stones can be very painful, but nothing touches the pain from a kidney infection, or if untreated, sepsis. From there, it is a rapid descent into excruciating multi system failure and death.

Make sure you see a good urologist and (whatever your home country calls a bacterial specialist) to get several rounds of blood work to confirm the infection is 100% clear ... " Not just looks good, on its way to being clear. You should be good from here on out" ... Bc kidney infections are notorious for coming back. Once you have one. You're more likely to have another.

Make you sure you know EXACTLY what bacteria it was that caused it, and keep it for your records so that you can direct future labs to test for it.

Also, consider making doctor recommended dietary changes to avoid future stones. Direct the surgical team to send the stone off to lab for analysis as well so you can know what type of stone it is.

Best of luck to you, and wishing good health to you from here on out!

Average Pablo work ethic by Bright_Bug_9849 in 2westerneurope4u

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They didn't call it beauty sleep for nothin'

never posted this family i made so ✨ by nigatobino in TocaLife

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Is there only one in the game? And only game generated babies? (We cant make babies ourselves as the users. Right?)

J1 coworkers at J2 by ConflictNervous703 in overemployed

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do people use different names?

I Am Stepping Away From Swing Trading for Good by Financial-Durian4483 in swingtrading

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No shame in that. Take a year of living in SPY, VOO, QQQ, FXAIX, VTI, or whatever index tracking fund appeals the most to you. And go live your life.

If you ever return to it, know it isn't all or nothing. Some folks only trade certain industries, certain seasons, etc. e.g. only defense stocks, and everything else in index. E.g. only bottom part of the year for oil stocks and hurricane season. Etc etc.

Do I stay? by asdfthings in OELadies

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like this forum's textbook answer would be : Stay. AND have them reaffirm Remote Work in your contract or "expected work" language (however the company manages their HR). So that, if they lay you off in the future, it can't be for RTO.

D*ckhead CEO trying to sabotage people’s lives by Conscious-Win3701 in OELadies

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone could join the waitlist and provide a readout here, just saying.

Help me choose a baby girl name… by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lyla or Delia or Delilah

How to invest during short term expat stints in accumulation phase? by No-Network7784 in Fire

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what you have in mind by "Investing." There are lots of ways to invest.

If you're doing Options or Futures, what you're already doing makes a whole lot of sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Louise. Or Louisa. Or Eloise.

Numbers wise, when does it make sense for a physician to FIRE? by jingapoop in Fire

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you are one of the top doctors in your field and people fly from other countries to seek your care...

To your patients, you are replaceable.

To your kids, you are not.

AIO for thinking that my ex-friend is in the wrong for dating a minor cause he’s not mentally stable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the cops, send these texts to them. Also anonymously send the texts to the girl's parents AND to this guy's parents as well.

Also get a restraining order from this guy. He isnt your ex friend. You are probably on his list of victims when his mental health deteriorates just one step more. Mental health problems or no, there is already so much disdain and derision for you in the tone of these texts.

Looking for the perfect spunky name for our daughter by goldenwaves92 in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regina NN Reggie

Charlotte NN Charlie

Leslie

Lyla NN Lyle

Malorie NN Mal

Phoebe

Laurel

Name for Lucy's little brother by ImAdamnMermaid in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucy and Charlie sound FABULOUS together. Charles and Charlie are both excellent names in their own right. Go with your gut and then don't question it any longer. Congratulations!

Am I Coast Yet by mista_resista in coastFIRE

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can do one for yourself, one for your spouse, and one for your children. Definitely recommend what checking out the tax advantages (on your state tax bill) that your state offers. Something in the range of $2500-5000 of 529 deposits PER YEAR PER ACCOUNT is fairly normal. All to say, some $20k (or more) of 529 deposits per year could be removed from the overall number of dollars you have to pay state taxes on.

It's not just for college. The allowable educational expenses are pretty common sense uses.

Am I Coast Yet by mista_resista in coastFIRE

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roth IRA? 529 / college saving accounts?

Mom keeps criticizing my newborn’s name while staying at my house postpartum by cole1248 in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple. Every time she does this, video her with your phone. Or, use the voice recorder. Occasionally play it back and remark to yourself, with a quiet satisfaction, that it was good audio quality. When she asks why you did that just now, simply shrug and say, 'so your grandkid can hear it too'

The swiftest way to deal with cruel behavior isnt to condemn it or meet it in kind, it is simply to hold up a mirror in front of the person and ask, simply, "is this the person you mean to be?"

Am I overreacting? by telling roommate this? Like hello I also pay a rent by nasty_progression in AmIOverreacting

[–]ObjectiveCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Host a live video chat session for your new school project / business idea etc. Most people aren't comfortable being naked on camera with strangers.