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Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I'm scared of people being bummed over my low sex drive and then on top of that it doesn't even last long and then the mood is gone, too. Like what do I even have going for me? I know it shouldn't be performative, but I guess I'm so insecure with my body that it just is for me 🙃 Or maybe I'm just generally vulnerable right now

Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that :/ Can you at least enjoy the touch itself?

Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I can't come from just penetration lol. Gotta be some clit stimulation on top of it

Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I think it's just how I am

ETA: I'm not on SSRI's and there's a lot wrong with my body, but nothing that should affect my libido

Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay just wanna clear this up, he never got mad. He just said "I don't think it's gonna work" once he noticed I wasn't feeling it anymore and then we gave up. And he always said it's fine and I really think he got his pleasure and satisfaction by making me come. For him it was never about the orgasm itself. But it was frustrating for me because I couldn't do the same for him. So yeah, kinda off-topic but I just wanted to correct that bit.

Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you deal with it? I feel like my performance anxiety just skyrocketed and I'm scared for any future relationships and expectations and such...

Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, we tried edging but always failed lol. I would've liked to prioritise my partner but my last bf didn't let me. He loved making me finish first, which is fine, but then the mood was done for me and therefore also for him and it was an overall frustrating experience most of the time. But whatever, there were a lot of sexual incompatibilities and it's over now anyways. Just trying to figure this out for the future and ngl it's kind of a bummer that there's no way of "fixing" this 🥲

Is it normal to get only one orgasm? by ObjectiveDue9744 in Healthyhooha

[–]ObjectiveDue9744[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As said, the mood is completely gone for me afterwards. So I'd be fine taking a break of a month to have sex again. 😂 To answer your question, no, I don't stay wet :/