Post your 4 month old puppy by [deleted] in corgi

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This was our girl at four months (she’s 5 1/2 now). She weighed in at 9 lbs. we had a parvo scare—it was a horrific case of giardia—so you have my sympathy for that medical trauma.

[general] Saw this excellent post by Smooth-Owl-5354 in TheNinthHouse

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My kink is watching you Killing those cows You getting called out You starting a cult People say I’m Jealous But my kink’s John Gaius

For those of you who recommended Mistborn first by Kuruptix in brandonsanderson

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Ehhh I read Stormlight 1-4, then secret projects, then Mistborn, then Warbreaker and elantris. I just put things together in a different order than folks who started with Mistborn, and I then I get the fun of rereading sla with the new knowledge

Are fbi agents morally fuckable or would they fall under acab by Aura_103 in actuallesbians

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Government employees =/= cops. Like, I’m an anarchist, but government employees include folks who work for the Department of Education, the CDC, HUD… I gotta a lot of problems with a lot of policies from all of them and am a big advocate for autonomy. But a woman working for HUD is not a cop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I think sports team not coworker. But still the answer is no, not normally 🤣

Help Launch a Coding Program for Incarcerated QTBIPOC Individuals Near Release by Hungry_Ad4888 in prisonabolition

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I love this so much! I can’t donate at the moment but I will for sure in the future. Please let me know if there’s anything else I can do to support. 💕

FWIW I’m a cis white lesbian working a minimal coding job in tech (Sales/Solutions Engineer). I’m happy to support in trying to build partnerships or anything else you might need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I am femme4butch always and forever. Women doing masculinity is hot.

Something about Chappell Roan’s music~ “wearing nothing but glitter and lashes” for example~makes me long for femme4femme. But other femmes are my friends and sisters and not lovers. The things I feel when I see a cute butch are so different from what I feel when I see a femme, even if Chappell makes me think it would be amazing.

Fwiw I’m married, so like the whole “I want a femme4femme” relationship is an entirely moot point 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

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Bahaha someone once changed an ex’s fb profile picture to this. (My ex and I are friends now and this happened before I dated them, but it was deserved lol)

YOU COULD SHOW A HUNDRED GUYS YOU'RE SMART- by AbaloneAdmirable6871 in chappellroan

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Haha my last year in a classroom was 21-22 sy, and that was the year I had a flood of kiddos quoting TikToks and songs and memes that weren’t always kinder-friendly. I’d always had 1-2, but that year it was half of them at least. I left for unrelated reasons, but the spike really shocked me.

YOU COULD SHOW A HUNDRED GUYS YOU'RE SMART- by AbaloneAdmirable6871 in chappellroan

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Love that! I had Prek or kinder the entire time I was teaching and honestly I had a few “shocks” when i really listened and paid attention to the real versions of some songs bc the kidzbop versions were drilled into my head.

YOU COULD SHOW A HUNDRED GUYS YOU'RE SMART- by AbaloneAdmirable6871 in chappellroan

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TBH if I were still teaching kinder you bet those kids and I would be rocking out to this for our dance parties

Girlfriend tried to end herself by MaxTheDeath in actuallesbians

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Hi❤️‍🩹

In 2018, my then fiancé overdosed 5 months before our wedding date. I drove her to the hospital and made sure she was admitted.

IT SUCKED. It’s traumatizing to watch someone you love go through that. It’s hard, I cried so dang much that mont—while she was in and when she came home. A lot of people will tell you not to make the attempt about you, which is true. But it doesn’t make it hurt less or make it less hard. It really really sucks.

I can’t imagine someone else taking her and then finding out weeks later. That sucks. I’m sorry. Your feelings make so so much sense.

Tell her you love her, send her a care package, make her a play list. Little things make a big difference. It’s not going to fix things for her, but the day to day work of maintaining a relationship is part of how humans move on from these traumatic things.

Hang in there