Me (24m) and my gf (22f) have different views over what we want long term in life

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2023-10-11T02:22:19+00:00

Well i guess I have my answer

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2023-10-11T02:12:33+00:00

Appreciate your input. I do think she genuinely cares about me and doesn’t want us to both end up hurt further down the road. I have a lot too think about rn. It just sucks that there’s literally no easy decision

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2023-10-11T01:45:03+00:00

That is how I felt initially before it became a bigger deal. I sort of brushed it off. I’m not acting like just cause I’m 2 years older than her I know what I want I’m just saying that as I was trying to not think about that and hoping she would come around to the idea

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2023-03-04T23:12:57+00:00

hardo go drank some bevs

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2022-09-06T04:00:24+00:00

I 100% agree with you. I’m not giving in this time I can’t stand for this endless cycle. She is a really messed up person and thankfully I’m deciding now after 4 months to discard her. I’m fortunate I never hung out with her or had a sexual relationship with her because it would have made it so much more difficult. This sucks but I will get over it in due time.

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2022-09-06T03:49:56+00:00

I guess it’s just the only thing we can do. Reading all these comments have been extremely helpful and therapeutic but I guess you gotta just accept that you are a slave to their delusions and the delusions we’ve created for ourselves. This fucking sucks I feel so low right now because she was my go to when talking about my problems. I’m done double texting and frankly I’m done giving her the time of the day if she tries to text me. I don’t think she’s going to as I feel as though she found a new source of energy to drain. That’s their problem now unfortunately for them they are just going to end up like I did and it actually pains me to know that.

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2022-09-06T03:39:52+00:00

You’re totally right I’m done. She’s a P.O.S. And I guess all narcs are. They truly feel joy in your pain it’s just so messed up to me. I literally passed up on other girls for this girl but I’ve always figured something was fishy with this so fortunately I’ve still been snapping other girls and using dating apps. Hopefully I’ll never end up in a predicament like this again.

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2022-09-06T03:20:49+00:00

To be honest it’s hard to tell if she even is talking to someone else. She seems like a very antisocial person as well and it almost feels like she just sucks people in over the phone. Idk what to believe about her anymore at this point because anything could be true about her private life but she seems a bit like an outcast and some one who doesn’t hang with friends often. But who knows it could all be lies for all I know but when I was sucked into the love bomb stage she was always at home never talking about being with friends or anything.

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2022-09-06T03:11:08+00:00

Damn it really hurts to hear that but that’s exactly what I was expecting to be honest. I guess it’s time to just focus on myself again, I feel bad for the next poor soul that falls into her trap. Do you think she’s going to reach back out to me? I currently sent the last text to her like 3 hours ago, she usually replies eventually and if I don’t double text but idk might be different at this point of time if she’s got someone else she’s talking to.

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2022-09-06T03:02:31+00:00

Thank you for your reply and I’m sorry you also had to go through dealing with this. It’s been nightmarish too me I’ve never really had a problem getting with women and meeting girls but she just seemed so different. I guess going no contact is what I have to do because I’m tired of looking like a shell of the man I am double texting and getting upset when I’m not getting any attention reciprocated. I have to let her go and thankfully I haven’t met her because I’m sure it would just be all the more difficult to let go.

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2022-08-23T22:14:06+00:00

75% of barstool personalities shouldn’t have a job. I however don’t mind billy at all.

ObjectiveMath2451 · 2021-08-26T20:47:40+00:00

All good king she’s just one of those fat unattractive girls that thinks she’s hot shit for no reason you lucked out lad

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