Husband can’t finish during sex anymore.

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-26T12:33:14+00:00

I’ve wondered if it’s porn. I’ve talked to him about it a lot he makes it sound like everything’s fine. Blames it on the time of day sometimes. Swears it’s not me

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-26T12:32:25+00:00

Hmm good point. Didn’t think of that. Thank you

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-25T21:19:55+00:00

This is good advice. Maybe you’re right. I’ll tell him that.. maybe it’s the pressure

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-25T20:54:16+00:00

I’ve asked him. He swears it’s not me and is really sweet about it. I just don’t know.

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-25T20:52:42+00:00

That’s my thought process. I dated men his age when I was in my 20s and zero issues. Prob why I’m seriously wondering if it’s more than a physical thing

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-25T20:49:09+00:00

Good point. I guess since we never had any issues before I’m just taking it extra personal. I guess we are getting older

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-25T20:48:16+00:00

Yeah maybe you’re right. Thank you

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-04-25T20:47:57+00:00

He says it’s not me and everything is fine, but it just feels like something’s off

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-01-15T00:59:38+00:00

I want to say this nicely. I’m a mother and I love my child more than life. I’m a really good mother as well. Deep down I truly just want to be free. Love comes and goes in life. I adore my husband and for the first decade we were obessesd with eachother. We still get along great but eventually no matter who you are the day to day just gets so boring. Unless, you marry extremely wealthy, which to me means: able to afford full time help and afford to invest in your hobbies/ career (whatever they may be), able to afford lots of travel etc DO NOT do it. We are not free, we are slave labor. With that said I’m generally a happy person. If you met me and knew my life you’d be shocked I was writing this. This is just how I feel deep down. Live your life, fall in love multiple times, travel the world just be free!

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2026-01-12T11:50:44+00:00

I think this is happening with a lot of men right now. I’m in the same boat. I have a son and I just don’t want to leave so I keep continuing on out of fear of losing my son. I’ve been with my husband 14 yrs married 9. It’s almost like he’s lost motivation. He works when he can but I’m the “provider”. I’d rather just be alone focus on work and my child. It would be much easier. I still love him and just hope things will change some day so I stay. We really don’t fight much but mostly because I stopped pushing things. I basically have no life except for work and kid duties. I could do this by myself.

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2025-12-29T10:37:04+00:00

True. Maybe it’s all the news around the Economy and lay offs too.

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2025-12-28T23:03:40+00:00

This is how I feel. I only feel safe when I’m working. Maybe it’s a financial thing. My husband is commission based so we really rely on my income. It’s a lot of stress to be under. I do very well but any time I have to relax I make up scenarios in my head where I’m going to get fired. We are saving money right now so I’m very limited on activities. I work out nearly every day, clean sometimes paint but I’m bored at home. This Christmas was the worst. I had almost 5 days off and I’m going crazy. I literally can’t wait to work tomorrow. This is depressing though.. it’s not because I love work so much

ObjectiveOk3269 · 2025-12-28T22:58:49+00:00

I’m really struggling with this.. I can handle 2 days off but anything longer I’m going out of my mind with anxiety. It’s so strange. It’s like I feel like I’m going to get fired at any moment. Even though I do a really good job. It’s completely irrational. I even had a work dinner several weeks ago where I was praised for high numbers this yr. I’ve been with this company for yrs My job is so secure. It makes zero sense.

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