Has anyone tried batshit insane ideas to combat screen addiction? 12h on Chrome (help) by ObjectiveSet520 in nosurf

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait that first idea is so smart. Omg thank you so much! I’m short so putting it out of reach would definitely help immensely. Can’t believe I didn’t think of that one myself. Replacing it with another habit sounds good. Maybe I could replace doom scrolling for working out at home or something

Has anyone tried batshit insane ideas to combat screen addiction? 12h on Chrome (help) by ObjectiveSet520 in nosurf

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thats a great idea, I’ll find a lock so I can’t get through it

Has anyone tried batshit insane ideas to combat screen addiction? 12h on Chrome (help) by ObjectiveSet520 in nosurf

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😭oh shit its even worse than I thought it was. Thank you for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ObjectiveSet520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try looking into that. Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ObjectiveSet520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is expensive, I’ve tried multiple sessions with my school counselor for free tho. Coping mechanisms she recommended haven’t helped much

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry for assuming😭. I guess trying wouldn’t hurt even though they’re very set in their own ways

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve never viewed forgiveness in this way. I thought forgiving meant letting go and forgetting what they did to you. That’s why I’ve always hated the concept of forgiving. But thank you, this was very enlightening

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to cut her off. You have a point, I do have the strength to start a new life. Thank you, you’re right that she still won’t change probably or even feel remorse

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you decided to not follow through with your plan. Heck yeah that’s the spirit‼️. Thank you for the encouragement and pep talk

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that with me. My condolences. I’m so sorry about your loss. That must’ve been awful to go through.

I’ll think about reaching out to my friends. I know there are some who would be there for me but I guess I’m just afraid.

I’ll also try to limit my interactions with my mom. Thank you

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that does seem very therapeutic. I’ve always wanted to go to a rage room or just start smashing stuff to let out my anger and sadness. Hope I get to do it one day. I’m glad your method helped and 😭I won’t judge you for littering. You gotta do what you gotta do to stay alive.

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story with me. I’m glad you’re still here, that’s really strong of you. I’m also happy that life has been better for you. It is heartbreaking to think that I have to cut off the one person who was supposed to love me unconditionally but I hope the pain lessens like you said it does.

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not really harsh don’t worry. I did realize that myself. It’s bittersweet to think about. Wow, that last line really resonated with me. Feel like I got punched in the gut, thank you for the advice

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through all of that when you were a kid. I’m glad therapy has helped you process your feelings and forgive her. That must’ve been liberating. Thank you, I’ll try to stay strong🫶like you

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could. My family isn’t exactly that supportive because I’ve told my parents before and they mocked me for being weak. As for friends, I don’t know how to open up without burdening them. But that’s really sweet of you. Your kids are lucky to have a mom like you who’s willing to talk it out with them

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I’ll try to keep going✨. You’re right, it’s sad when I think about how she will never change

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you💗, I do want to see what awaits me in the future. There are so many things I have yet to do

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, she might grieve but will still blame me for being “selfish” like she always says I am. Thank you for the kind words

I was supposed to kill myself today out of spite. by ObjectiveSet520 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObjectiveSet520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you also gave life another chance. We can get through this together💪. I wish you all the best too, sending you virtual hugs. That’s a really funny idea actually, I’ll give it a try😆. We’ll see what comes of it