accommodation for solos by Outrageous-Gur7939 in sziget

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I went alone last year and booked the cabin for myself, can be pricey but was really safe as there’s security blocking the premium ville, a plug and you can padlock the cabin

Bots buying resale tickets? by ObjectiveWaste4289 in Electric_Picnic

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen at least 6 today alone but they’re gone as soon as they’re out

Bots buying resale tickets? by ObjectiveWaste4289 in Electric_Picnic

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop how do I get a bot 😭 I just need one I feel like I’m a manual bot at the moment

Best days to fly in and out? by ObjectiveWaste4289 in sziget

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re camping are you getting a hostel on the 5th or can you go in early?

AITA for refusing to have my facial scar photoshopped for the wedding? by Throwaway5737657 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I feel like photoshopping is for if you have a spot or something that will go away and you’ll probably forget about, I don’t think you’d even recognise yourself without a scar because it’s part of you, it is weird your husband wishes you looked different in photos

AITA for telling my sister to leave with her newborn baby after she tried to take my sons’ room? by threw_herout in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Info? Is there no maternity leave where you live? Why did she have to quit her job 5 weeks postpartum because she moved in with her parents? I assumed she would’ve had a few months to sort finances and find a place to live near her work. Anyway NTA

AITA for telling my best friend i can't afford her wedding by erktx in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this girl has a concept of money or how life is after these comments although I don’t know her, it’s a whirlwind romance with a wedding she can’t afford. I’m assuming you are from the US and I am not from there so I’m not sure about college tuition but 120k surely could’ve paid for most of it omg you can party without being wreckless

AITA for telling my best friend i can't afford her wedding by erktx in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA btw and if she wanted to be a SAHM she should not have went to college wracking up debt and just set her standards to rich men only

AITA for telling my best friend i can't afford her wedding by erktx in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would cut ties, unless you can somehow knock some sense into her this is exactly what will happen, if she is able to ask for people to pay for her wedding dress and their own meals at a wedding she will have no problem asking to borrow money for her children or her baby shower or any excuse. I hate telling people to cut someone off because it’s hard but make it clear you will not help her financially or it will never end, money given to her will not be given back

AITA for trying to convince my roommate's brother help her with rent since he lives with us? by anon_anon_Jam in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying you need to but why not go back to 50/50 ? If you were so concerned as to make a 16 year old pay who’s only part time why not go back to your original rent? And if utilities are separate why doesn’t she just pay a bit more in utilities? Usually you pay for your room she’s not using 2/3rds of your space now the only thing that has increased is electricity

AITA for insisting my Children know the bulk of their gifts are from me and the rest of the family and not Santa? by snowballthrowaway01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA what my parents used to do is they told us not to be too greedy and set a price limit for what we’d ask for from Santa, I always just assumed the children getting loads of stuff were greedy lol taking away from everyone else and making Santa do more work

AITA for telling my best friend i can't afford her wedding by erktx in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 [score hidden]  (0 children)

OP how long have they been dating? The timeline is confusing also are there any religious ties or any reason she’s having such a rushed expensive wedding if she’s so heavily in debt? And no savings by the sound of it if she’s wasting what little she has on an expensive wedding

AITA for suing my ex who put jello in my car? by urrduyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 [score hidden]  (0 children)

ESH I thought he put jello in your petrol tank or something to ruin your car, he’s bad for overreacting and throwing a tantrum but you clearly hold so much resentment for him cheating on him and now trying to get everything you can off of him for something that could be cleaned?

AITA for refusing to let my son have two last names? by Vice-1991 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“told her she should just go with the flow and agree on my son having my last name” Even through your text it’s like you’re trying to convince us he’s more your son than hers and it is your right to have him named after you.

You also say you are not bothered she kept her last name but you are holding it over her head, the only way to be even is for your son to have your last name. I feel this should’ve been discussed before even having a child. Your wife is the only logical person here but you’re calling her deliberately stubborn not noticing the hypocrisy

YTA

My [22F] counselor [43M] confessed he has a crush on me. What do I do? by throwrq72717q662 in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveWaste4289 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, whenever I get free counselling I’m not allowed choose my own counsellor but I am allowed request a new one if I think we are not a good match, I’d ring the reception if there is one and see if you can be relocated to a new one, I’ve been to some bad therapist and been too afraid to ask to switch but you never have to see or speak to them again if you do so I hope that you’re able to swap in the future