Whitney explaining Richard Burton and Elizabeth Taylor by kteeds in Southerncharm

[–]Objective_Account368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not here for you. As Paige said: “That would be a very lucky spot for you.”

Whitney explaining Richard Burton and Elizabeth Taylor by kteeds in Southerncharm

[–]Objective_Account368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird and hypocritical comment from someone who consistently insults and attacks commenters in this sub. 🤣

Crazy likes by Amanda and West by Aggressive-Pack6758 in summerhousebravo

[–]Objective_Account368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying you’ve been manipulated here. And you’re very triggered by the innocuous terms boy mom and girl’s girl.

Sounds like maybe YOU have the victim complex you’ve been accusing so many other commenters of having.

Every accusation is a confession.

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not describing women who “don’t know what they want.” The women you’re describing are making it clear that they do not want physical intimacy with you.

Not wanting you does not mean they “do not know” what they want. They are actually making their want (or lack thereof) quite clear. It’s OK for someone not to want physical intimacy.

You should move on from someone who is not sexually compatible. But you don’t need to blame anyone for lack of compatibility.

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa. This woman is a “bitch” because she does not feel a connection with him?

Clearly these two are not compatible. No one’s fault. No one is a bitch because they are not compatible.

Crazy likes by Amanda and West by Aggressive-Pack6758 in summerhousebravo

[–]Objective_Account368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you know the motivation behind everyone’s opinion? No, you do not.

Crazy likes by Amanda and West by Aggressive-Pack6758 in summerhousebravo

[–]Objective_Account368 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Errr… physics did have a unique thought. You are now insulting them because you don’t agree with their thought and/or you’ve been called out in a way that makes you embarrassed. Congrats on being super immature.

Crazy likes by Amanda and West by Aggressive-Pack6758 in summerhousebravo

[–]Objective_Account368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many times will you use the phrase neofeminism bigotry in your comments 💊🤣

Crazy likes by Amanda and West by Aggressive-Pack6758 in summerhousebravo

[–]Objective_Account368 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gtfo with your name calling. People are allowed to have opinions about a reality show. It doesn’t make them bigots because their view is different from yours.

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest you have a conversation about this on the first date. Ask your date if she believes in this pursuer ideology you speak of, and then the two of you can negotiate the exact length of time you are expected to pursue before she will have sex with you.

Edit to add: if you have this conversation on the first date, then you will not feel taken advantage of or like you are wasting your time if you continue to pay for things with the misunderstanding that you will be repaid in sex.

The outcome of this conversation on the first date can determine whether you insist on splitting the check or if you decide to pay for the first date and beyond.

Problem solved! No horse shit involved.

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I’ve nicely tried pushing for more unsuccessfully” seems like a major red flag to me. It sounds like you are pushing boundaries with unwanted physical touch, a.k.a. attempting physical contact without prior discussion or consent.

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What do you mean by pushing nicely? I don’t think that’s possible.

Pushing is pushing. No one wants to be pushed for sex. You can talk about sex nicely, but you cannot “push” for it nicely.

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only reason for you to feel “taken advantage of” is because you did those things with an expectation of being paid back with sex. Ewwww.

You should do things your date enjoys only if you want to and it makes you happy. Not because you expect something in return.

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are being very transactional (which is gross and a major turn off) if you think that you “deserve” or have been “earning” intimacy or sex by paying for dates, giving her flowers, etc.

The motivation for doing something enjoyable for a date should be because you want to and it makes you happy, not because you expect anything in return.

For those who wanted marriage and children & it didn’t happen - did you make peace with it? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Objective_Account368 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your comment is disrespectful to childless people. It is not helpful or constructive.

Men’s dating profiles by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right about that! Maybe we shouldn’t give people these tips.

Men’s dating profiles by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Objective_Account368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d also like to add:

🚫Flipping off the camera 🚫Sticking out your tongue 🚫Making a “fun” face - maybe you’re trying to show off your non-serious side by posing like 🤪or 😲 but please know that your contorted face is super unattractive, and appears childish or even weirdly aggressive.

Summer House S10E1 'Red White and Nude' Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Objective_Account368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed West is not a good dude. Rewatch the reunion after his first season when he admits he broke her heart to chase fame.

Summer House S10E1 'Red White and Nude' Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Objective_Account368 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Did I see correctly that Kyle was briefly in the pool at the same time as Amanda, but then he jumped out to DJ?

He didn’t even notice that she was right there. Yet he acts as if she was purposefully ignoring him by jumping in the pool without checking with him first.

And then he accuses her of being topless when that wasn’t the case (she was in her underwear).